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Visits

2010-11-21T22:26:00.000-08:00

I have pictures from my Seattle trip over Halloween weekend, Laguna Beach the next weekend and Texas last weekend. It was quite a whirl wind of traveling every weekend for 3 weeks!

McKenzie getting ready for Halloween Trick or Treaters to come to the house.

Brynn was a very cute monkey.

My little spider girl.

Monkey see- monkey do!!

Great pic of Evan and Brooke!

Having fun with ring pops!

The beautiful trees in their neighborhood.

Kenzie having fun in the car.

Brynn ready to fall asleep in the car!

In between Seattle and Dallas I went down to Laguna Beach to see Joanie for the weekend.

Here she is with Allen and their dogs, Maddie and Sophie.

Here is Joanie and Susie McArthur, another dear friend.

Maddie is the sweetest dog ever!!

The view from Joanie's deck off the living room.

On to Dallas the next weekend!!!

Jenna at her last soccer game for the season!

Look at these adorable little soccer players!

Reagan with her friends at Jenna's soccer game.

What a great looking couple! Here Ian and Anayansi are in Ft. Worth- we had a great time playing tourists.

Jenna and Reagan making friends with a colorful cow in Ft. Worth.

Look at the horns on this Longhorn Steer- they walk down the street for the tourists in Ft. Worth twice a day!

The girls at the stockyards in Ft. Worth.

After the stock yards we enjoyed the Water Gardens.

I got to see Reagan in a play at her school- she is in the green dress in the center.

These were all great visits!! I wish I could have spent more time in each place. I am so grateful I was able to go though. I love my granddaughters so much! I love Joanie too and am grateful she is feeling better.

My Weekend

2010-10-10T19:29:00.000-07:00

I had a great time with Chris and Bill last night going to dinner at the Cosmo Cafe and then seeing "Suds". It was a late celebration for both of their birthdays! They were great to drive out to Sacramento to see me. But then again- I had to book that day with them almost 2 months ago!! They are sooo busy. The play was fun- all music from the early 60's.

Chris and Bill just before the show was to begin.

Sundays are usually very busy for me. I stay busy with church, friends, talking on the phone to my family. Maybe even a church meeting. Today was more quiet than usual. I went to church but only the first hour. I have had a headache for about 3 days and can't seem to kick it so I came home to take a nap. I never made it to nap time but I was able to take it easy. Finally, I knew I needed to do something productive so I planted some flowers I had bought yesterday and put them on my front porch. I am in the process of redoing that area. It desperately needs some color! There is more to come- hopefully next weekend I can put some more out there.

I was able to talk to Cami this morning on Skype and Leigh this afternoon. Everyone else is out and about so didn't get the usual phone visits in. So my provoking thought for tonight is "Am I really in such a hurry to retire????" Not really I guess. If I were totally financially independent than maybe I would think differently! (Lynn- when ARE we going to win the Lotto????) But since I am not, I think about how I might get bored if I did't have work to get up and go to. Because to do much else- takes money!! With working- time is an issue too. Which is mainly what I want so that I can travel to see everyone. But I can't always be traveling- so going to work isn't all that bad most of time. I just wish I could work 10-2 and make the same money!!! Actually things at work aren't all that great these days. AT&T has made it pretty obvious that they want to get rid of their California employees. Tomorrow we find out which 2 people in our group is getting a notice of being let go (with severance). There will be more cuts next year. So it is only a matter of time. In the meantime- I am grateful for my friends at work- and that I have a job to pay for my travels!!

Here is my manager, Debbi, with her daughter and grandson. She brought them in to show us all Britton's new cast on his broken arm! We truly are like family at work.

Halloween Season!

2010-10-05T22:14:00.000-07:00

The new addition to my office!!!

It's about time!

2010-09-25T10:26:00.001-07:00

I gave up on my blog because there was some kind of error on the page. I won't be you with the details of everything that has been going on the past few months- but will try and post a few pictures!

I went to Texas in July for Reagan's baptism. Had such a great visit!!

I love being able to see my cousins in Texas when I go. Kathie and Ike were in town too so that was a great surprise!

One day we went to paint ceramics. Reagan chose a little cupcake trinket box.

Jenna chose a horse and painted it blue and pink!

Ian's family relaxing on the couch the night before I left!

The morning I left to go home- Anayansi and the girls!

Two weeks later Ian came to Sacramento on business so we had a great visit.

He was able to visit old friends- we went to see Kelly and her kids!

In August Ivy turned 2! They had a fun birthday party at the park.

Cami is being great about sending me cute pictures of her pregnancy. Here she is with her friend Katie who is due in October.

Early Sept I went to Redmond to see Brooke and her family. Here is McKenzie waiting in line for kindergarten!

We took the kids shopping. Here I put a ghost headband on Brynn!

McKenzie loves to try on hats!

It was a fun summer- now Fall is upon us.! I will try and be better about posting.......

Is it really July?

2010-07-03T19:37:00.001-07:00

Can't believe it is July already. Seriously, where has this year gone? It is 4th of July weekend- and I am not in Coronado. That makes me sad not to be there. I love being in Coronado with lifelong friends. Coronado grads come every year for the All Class Reunion at the Golf Course. Maybe next year. Last year this time Susie and I went to Coronado for my 40th High School Reunion! That was such a blast. this year I did have the next best thing though. Brooke and her family were here for 3 days. I love being with McKenzie and Brynn. Always a lot of fun! We went to Kelly and Marcus's the first night the kids were here. We had a great visit with their family. Chris and Bill were there too which made it even better. Yesterday we went to Bryan and Lisa's- Kenzie played with Ayden and Brynn tagged along- playing with Logan, Ayden's little brother . You can only imagine the chaos that happens with 2 four-year-olds and 2 two-year-olds! They swam, played with a gazillion toys, ate dinner, then Bryan put up the bounce house. I would have loved to have taken pictures but I could not relax enough to think about that. Chasing them around to keep them safe was enough to make me crazy. All of the adults were busy just supervising and refereeing!!! Today I got some quality time with Brynn. Brooke, Evan and McKenzie had people to see and places to go. Late in the afternoon they all headed out to go down see Evan's family for a few days. I will get to see them though for one more night. McKenzie talks to me all the time about how I should just live in Seattle. It is so hard to go so long without seeing them. Anyone want to buy a townhouse????

I finally got my computer issue figured out. I knew it would be no big deal but I just couldn't fix it. Evan sat at my computer for less than 5 minutes and reconfigured what I needed!! I know----- Lynn always makes fun of me for not being able to figure that stuff out. I think I do pretty well most of the time as far as my technology goes. But not really. Oh well- thanks to Evan I can now upload pictures again. So hopefully I will be posting now a little more often. I know that makes all 5 of you happy!! No one reads this anyhow but I this is my journal most of the time now. Need to keep the documentation!!

What Have I Been Up To????

2010-06-02T20:51:00.000-07:00

I haven't posted in FOREVER.......... For the 3 or 4 of you that read this blog I am truly sorry! I have some computer problems and am not able to upload pictures to this blog. Very frustrating!!!!

Lots has gone on the past 6 weeks since my last post- since Cami has gone back to Stockholm. I have been to Seattle twice, been to a Carrie Underwood concert with Barb and Sarah, dealt with a seriously ill cat who is still with me, gotten a new dishwasher and a new kitchen floor installed, visited Kelly and her newborn baby girl, seen some great movies (and some not so great ones), hung out with some great friends, worked a lot, gone to church, lost sleep and found it again......

So stay tuned- hopefully won't take me long to get this picture thing figured out.

Not Leaving On A Jet Plane

2010-04-18T17:35:00.000-07:00

Cami has been here in California since Friday, April 9th. Her main objective was to spend quality time with Jamie. Most of you know about Jamie- she was in a horrific accident while serving in the Peace Corps in Kazakhstan. She is now in a rehab hospital in the Bay Area learning all the basics: how to walk, talk and eat again. Cami has been able to help with her therapies this past week. I was also able to have some quality time with Cami- especially for her 26th birthday! And she was able to see a few friends but for the most part she has been with Jamie, Jamie's friends and her family.

She was supposed to leave today to go back to Stockholm. Her flight was scheduled out of San Francisco early this morning. Well, Mother Nature was busy making other plans.............. Last Thursday a volcano in Iceland erupted throwing the world out of kilter. At least the part of the world that Cami lives in and then some. How do you negotiate with Mother Nature???? You don't! So we wait. She has re-booked her flight to go home next Saturday, the 24th. She will try and do some work for her job remotely. She will spend more time with Jamie. She will miss her sweet husband. I came back to Sacramento to work this week but will be with her again before she leaves. It is hard to not be in control of your own plans!!! What a lesson in patience. Pray for the clouds to dissipate or at least lessen. Oh- and pray for Cami's cold that she caught from me to get better.....

Words with Friends

2010-03-31T20:31:00.001-07:00

When I got my new toy- my iPhone- I learned about "apps". Apps is applications for short for those that may not know, but I think I was the last one around to learn about them. Anyhow- some apps are free and some are not. So far I have 4 pages of apps on my phone. The ones I look at the most are Facebook, Weather, WorldView (webcams around the world), Around Me, Maps, and then some games-Tetris, Bejeweled2, Shanghai and Words with Friends. Words With Friends is so addicting! It is scrabble with other iPhone users. You can have up to 20 games at one time going on. So far the most games I have had going is 6. It gives me a brain cramp sometimes but so fun. I am always checking to see if it is my turn to play a word. Have to admit I had never heard of some words before like Qi, Xi, Qidar. Some words work that I never think is a word but you learn to try just about anything and if it goes through it's good. If it isn't good the game tells you. So thew, mauts, yar, and soli are some words I had no clue would work but they did! So if you hear someone talking about Words With Friends now you know.... If you aren't already playing it yourself!

The Millars have left California!

2010-03-23T20:32:00.000-07:00

I'm home tonight after being in Washington for 4 days. Brooke, Evan, McKenzie and Brynn have moved to Redmond, WA. They bought a beautiful new home there. The cool thing for me is that it is a mile away from my sister's house! I will now get so see a lot more of her and her family which will be a great thing.

We unpacked for hours..... and took turns with the kids. I did get some one on one time with Sue and Pete so that was nice too. Susie is am amazing cook and she cooked us a great dinner one night. The area is so beautiful there, and the weather was great! It rained some but then the sun came out. So many times Brooke would get a warning about the weather... take vitamin D, get exercise, prepare to get depressed. Well- they DID do their homework before they moved there and it is pretty common knowledge anyhow about the weather up there. So I don't think they will be surprised.

So I am starting a new chapter in my life. I now officially have no children living in this state any longer. It is not going to be an easy transition for me..... It is going to be a challenge because I have become pretty dependent on being able to see Brooke and her family on a regular basis. I will still see them, of course. Just not every other weekend. I have a feeling I will be earning my Southwest Airlines Rapid Rewards Free tickets a lot faster now.

25 Years!

2010-03-18T22:36:00.000-07:00

March 1st was my anniversary with AT&T for 25 years. If I hadn't taken 12 years off I would have 37 years total!! But I did take the time off - and the good thing is I was able to "Bridge" my service. So anytime someone reaches milestone anniversaries the company recognizes it. My whole team was able to go to lunch on the company's tab! We went to Buonarroti Ristorante here in Sac. It was great! Also- I was able to pick something out of a special catalog the company sent me- for my "award". I chose a Pentax Optio P80 Camera. So not a bad deal for reaching 25 years, huh??? I am not really crazy about the "New AT&T". Corporate is so much like Big Brother. They are implementing processes that don't always seem to work. There are fewer employees to do just as much work as before and we are always wondering if our group is next on the chopping block. But I am very fortunate. Fortunate to work with a really fun, amazingly smart group of people. All the years I was in Sales- I felt alone because of the competitive nature of sales. Since I have moved over to the support side I am able to be part of a team that has common goals. We all help each other. My job consists of hitting my head against a brick wall hundreds of times a day! Working with technology, processes that don't make sense, impossible deadlines and escalations, high maintenance customers, tracking systems that are a pain, and never ending job insecurity. But I am happy where I am. I love my group and other good friends that I have the privilege to be around (need to include Bryan and Ms T. here....). Each person in my group brings something different and unique to the group. I have never before felt like my co-workers "have my back" as much as this group does. I love being able to be of help when needed too. My boss is the best- she truly cares about us. So all in all- I am lucky to have the job that I do. I want to retire but still can't afford to- so for now I will get up and go to work every day and I do so willingly!! But only because I get to work with Lynn, Lisa, Chris, Judy, Anna, Yvonne, Theresa, Paula, Ben, Ramon, Deanna, Jamie, Michael, Marv, Gilbert, and our boss, Debbi.

My new toy

2010-03-01T22:41:00.000-08:00

I bought an iPhone for my birthday present to myself. Do I need a reason to buy one? Not really - but in my mind I needed to rationalize. Lynn and I bought our previous phones on the same day- and to get a new one you need to be within 6 months of the end of the contract to get the discounted price for a new phone. So to the very day of being within 6 months of the end of our contracts- we went to the AT&T store and bought our new phones. I had grown to hate my old phone - it kept turning itself off. So I was more than ready for a new one...... I have been having a lot of fun with the new one. I like to think I am pretty techy but the truth is- I am not all that. I do OK but Lynn will be the first to tell you don't have the patience she does. I just want it to work immediately. And when I can't get it to do what I want it to do I get frustrated! Evan and Brooke gave me a few tutorials too.... so I am getting the hang of most of the apps. Lots of new lingo that goes with an iPhone!!! Apps, location on, brightness uses more battery, navigating Facebook is not quite as easy as on the computer, sending text, touch don't push, ding, words with friends, postcards, AroundMe, etc, etc etc, So I need to finish up - I am playing Words with Friends online with Lynn and I am also playing Bejeweled!

What a day!

2010-02-25T21:27:00.000-08:00

I had a great birthday! It actually started earlier in the week when I got a great recipe book in the mail from Leigh. Then the phone calls started. Leigh called first! Then I went to dinner last night with Marcia, Tiffany, and Diana. We went to Bucca de Beppo. Lots of good food and fun conversation. Today was great!!! It started with being sung Happy Birthday to in Swedish by Cami! Goodies at my desk including the biggest balloon I have ever received, a plant, some toys, a beautiful purse!!!, lunch with friends, then cake at work in the afternoon. I also received some great emails, lots of messages on Facebook and more phone calls. I loved hearing from all of my granddaughters! I really do cherish the friendships I have. It is hard living alone and being so far away from my children and grandchildren. I don't think I could handle it if it weren't for my friends and other family! With all the heart ache that has happened the past few months that each of my children have experienced in different ways-- I am extremely grateful for the life that I have and all the people in my life. I look forward to the next 58 birthdays!

What Matters Most

2010-02-22T23:13:00.000-08:00

My heart is hurting tonight.... Brooke lost a dear friend to cancer today. Catie was a young mother of 3 small children, wife to a sweet gentle husband. I am once again reminded of how fragile life is and to never take those that matter for granted. I try not to and will continue to work at that.

Catie's husband, Steve, has posted a beautiful tribute to Catie on her blog.
This is her blog : http://steve-catie.blogspot.com

Amended Valentine's Post

2010-02-16T20:47:00.001-08:00

Got this in the mail today--- from my Reagan and Jenna- they are soooooo cute! Love them!!

Happy I Love You Day!

2010-02-14T19:05:00.000-08:00

Being single is not a great thing on Valentine's Day! I don't let it get to me but the reality is I don't have a special one person to share the day with. That being said - I did manage to have a fun time with Valentine's Day. My Valentine's started early on Thursday- when I received beautiful flowers from Ian, Anayansi, Reagan and Jenna! They are so good to remember me every year on V-Day! I also got a few cute little Valentine's from friends at work.

Love my tulips from Ian and his family!

Found these cute little goodies on my desk at work.

On Friday we celebrated at work with a Pot Luck- we don't really need an excuse to bring food to work but we thought it was a good one! So after eating spaghetti, enchiladas, fruit salad, cookies, etc., etc., I went to a dinner party for the opening of the Olympics! It was fun to visit with Marcia, Diana, Torry, Gary, and Kevin. GO USA!

YUMMMMMMM!

Saturday I went on over to Brooke's to stay with Brynn and McKenzie while Evan and Brooke went to SF for the night. This was one of Evan's birthday presents to Brooke. As usual I had fun with the girls- even though little Brynn was feeling kind of crummy. McKenzie made the sweetest little Valentine Heart for me! We kept it low key since Brynn wasn't feeling great. This morning was pancakes as usual! We then got a little baseball practice in- in their back yard. Kenzie is such a little athlete. She loves baseball and basketball.

My cute little Valentine from McKenzie!

I tried to explain to McKenzie that Valentine's Day is a time when you tell people that you appreciate them, or you like them or you love them. "But Grandma- you always tell me you love me anyhow..." Love that kid!

Pure silliness in the car!

Monkey see - Monkey Do!!

30 years ago!

2010-02-09T23:13:00.000-08:00

Happy Birthday Brooke! I remember the day you were born so clearly. We got to Kaiser Hospital on Mission Gorge Road in San Diego at about 5:30 AM. I never made it to delivery. You were born at 8:13 am in the labor room!! A doctor I had never met before helped deliver you. Aunt Susie was there too with your dad and me. It was so exciting to have a little girl. Your big brother was over at the babysitter's house. By some weird notion I knew it was going to happen and the night before we had taken Ian over to his daycare provider's house. You were born 4 days early. You weighed 7 lbs. 11oz. and you were fair and blonde!!!! So sweet! You looked different than Ian had as a newborn so it was a totally new experience for us. You were such a quiet natured baby! You have grown into a beautiful woman and mother. I am so proud of you and love you so much!

Brooke at six weeks old

Here she is at two and a half years old

Brooke's beautiful family last November

They're moving.......

2010-02-07T22:09:00.000-08:00

I had such a fun weekend hanging out with McKenzie and Brynn. Brooke and Evan went to Seattle to find a house. They succeeded! Their new house is ONE MILE away from my sister, Susie, and her husband, Pete. How crazy is that??? So I will be seeing more of them in the future which is a good thing! It is going to be really really hard to have Brooke's family move farther away. But as a parent you want your kids to grow up and be independent- right? They have their own lives and I totally understand that. But picture my world- I live in Sacramento. Ian and his family are in Dallas. Cami and Klas are in Stockholm, Sweden. Now Brooke and her family will be in the Seattle area. I wish I could just retire so that I can travel. But my house is here and it wouldn't sell now for what I would need it to sell for. My job is here. So for now - Here I stay. I do manage to have a busy life anyhow. Just wish I had more time and money. Maybe this will be the year I will win the lotto that my group at work plays! Is that asking too much???

We went downtown for yogurt!

We played Mr. Potato Head

We went to Chris's and McKenzie and MJ played doctor!

The girls love playing at Chris's!

Back to normal (not sure what that is though!)

2010-01-31T19:42:00.000-08:00

After two weeks of having Cami and Klas here- they are already back in Stockholm. The time flew by. It wasn't the greatest of trips for them and for that I feel bad. But I am grateful they were here. I loved just hanging out with them, being in the same room and not even talking. It makes me happy to see them together. Also, I loved having both of my girls together. I wish Ian could have been here too. Maybe this summer.......

I mentioned earlier that Cami's friend Jamie was in a terrible accident in Kazakhstan. She is now in Washington DC getting ready to be moved again to the Bay Area where her parents live, where she grew up. She is no longer in a coma. They say she is awake but not aware. It is going to be a long road back for her. It breaks everyone's hearts. But we are thankful she has survived. The prognosis is still unknown. For now we are grateful for each baby step of progress that she makes. Cami will probably be back sooner than planned so that she can be with Jamie. It was hard for her not to be able to be at Jamie's side.

The weather was really terrible for most of their visit. I obviously have no control over that one too. But darn------- I wish the warm sun had made itself known more than it did. It was still warmer than Stockholm though. Upon their arrival home they were greeted with sub-zero temperatures!

To top it all off I got sick the last week of their visit too. Cough, cold, sinus issues...... I am not back to normal yet but feel a lot better. I hope that Cami and Klas don't go home with my germs, I hope Brooke's family doesn't get sick either. Anyhow---- I'm thankful for the past two weeks. Being a mom and Grandma is the BEST CALLING in life I will ever have. Really tough to see Cami go home. But grateful that they are safe, healthy and happy. Life is so fragile.

Cami, Jamie, and Robin

2010-01-24T16:13:00.000-08:00

I have been pretty tied up this past week. I have absolutely loved having Cami and Klas here in California. They stayed at my place for 3 nights which was truly a treat. They cooked dinner for me twice. They were able to visit with friends here in Sacramento. The rain is still pretty much happening but not quite as stormy. They went on to San Francisco for 2 days and now they are having fun with other friends in Pleasanton. They will head back over to Brooke's soon so I will go back too to have a couple of more days with them. We just aren't sure yet if they will leave early for Cami to go see Jamie.

Jamie is now at George Washington Univ Hospital in Wash, DC. She is still in her coma but shows positive signs of waking up soon- we HOPE. She is not withdrawing from pain any more, she reaches for the tubes in her throat when her hands are not restrained. She opened her right eye for a moment too. Her sister-in-law, Lailah, has done an amazing job of keeping us all informed as to her progress. You can read here if you want to pray for Jamie too. I can only imagine the pain her family is going through. Brain injuries are unique to each patient. I have learned so much just reading online about cortex damage these past days. So think positive thoughts and pray for "Jamie-girl".

Jamie and Cami painting their apartment at UC Davis

Jamie and Cami at Brooke's baby shower.

Yesterday I was able to be a part of my friend, Robin's, wedding. She and Richard got married in the Sacramento LDS Temple. I had the privilege of being her "photographer". Yes- scary thought, huh?!!!! I had Brooke and Evan's amazing Canon DX camera, which obviously made all the difference in the world! It was a long day but a fun one. They have a lot of friends, family, and co-workers that were there to support them. The reception was sooooo fun! The had Behind the Scenes DJs. I know them from when I used to be in charge of the Single Adult Dances at church. They are great! They made the party for us all. Congrats to Robin and Richard! Heres to an eternity of happiness!

Robin and Richard after the wedding at the Sacramento Temple.

Welcome to Sunny California!

2010-01-22T00:11:00.000-08:00

Cami and Klas left Stockholm hoping to get away from the cold and the dark to escape to the sunshine state. Well........ it hasn't exactly happened they way they had hoped! So far they have seen the sun for probably a total of 3 hours in the past 6 days. We have been having horrendous rain and wind. To add to that - Cami recieved news that her dear friend, Jamie, was in a terrible car accident in Kazakhstan (Jamie was serving in the Peace Corps there). Two other people were killed in the accident. Jamie is still in a coma. She has been transported from Kazakhstan to Afghanistan, to Frankfurt, Germany, and now to Washington DC where she is currently at George Washington Univ Hospital. We are getting constant updates from Jamie's sister-in-law's blog. Lailah went with her husband and Jamie's parents to Germany and they are now in DC with her. This news and the weather is definitely making it hard for Cami and Klas to really enjoy their vacation in California. We have enjoyed family time though. Just want to share a few fun pictures of their visit. More to follow after the rest of their visit. In the meantime, please remember to add Jamie in your prayers for a full recovery.

I love having my girls together!

The sun almost came out when we went to Farmer's Market in Pleasanton.

Cami and Klas took me to barbecue for dinner!

Freezing in Atlanta!

2010-01-12T19:46:00.000-08:00

I had a fun weekend in Atlanta with my brother, John, and his girlfriend, Jeannette. Jeannette is visiting from Amsterdam. Last August I stayed with her for 4 days after I had been in Stockholm. It has been so fun to get to know her. Of course, I loved reconnecting with John too. It was extremely cold in Atlanta- but it wasn't snowing. The snow was on the ground but no new snow to speak of. We drove to Helen, a little town that looks like a German village. We went to the lake to play with Max, John's dog. We went out to dinner to see John's son, JJ. We played Yahtze. We had a birthday celebration for Jeannette too. I was only there 3 nights. I wish it could have been longer. He is a funny guy-- and I love him so much!

John and Jeannette by the Chattahoochee River

John IV and John III

A frozen fountain in the town of Helen.

Jeannette at the lake.

John's house.

John, Jeannette and Max at home in Cumming, GA.

Happy New Year!!

2010-01-06T22:39:00.001-08:00

Christmas in Texas!

2009-12-29T23:18:00.000-08:00

First stop- HOUSTON- to visit my sister, Leigh.

Leigh with her granddaughter, Ansara Michelle

Michael's son and his family came for a visit.

My cousin, Monita, came up to Houston with her kids.

Leigh's new cat, DC (Darn Cat!)

On to DALLAS!

Fun with Jenna and Reagan!

Ian and I took the girls to the Dallas Stars Hockey game. Best seats ever!!! Thanks Ian!

We went to see Santa.

It snowed on Christmas Eve!

The girls decorated a gingerbread house.

Jenna checking out one of her Christmas gifts.

Christmas morning fun for Reagan!

My cousin, Vicki, and her family came to see us at Ian's house.

My cousin, Grace, came too for the visit-

Ian and Anayansi when we went out to great Mexican lunch.

I went to Grace's to see her daughters and their families.

I loved my visit with Ian and his beautiful family!

Christmas at Work!

2009-12-18T23:13:00.000-08:00

This past week at work has been crazy. Fun celebrating the holidays and stressful getting ready to be gone for 10 days. We took goodies to some of the departments that we work closely with. It was great to connect the faces to the voices we talk to on the phone every day. Then we had our own party. After eating goodies all morning we went to lunch at the Olive Garden. As much as I whine about work I really do love the people I work with.

Here we are getting ready to go downstairs with some goodies.

These are the provisioning specialists that type our orders.

Then we went to see the testers that help us implement. This is Naomi with Lynn and I.

This is my boss, Debbi, opening her gift in the "stealing" game.

Lynn and Lisa having fun at the gift exchange.

Theresa, Anna and Marv

Here is Michael opening the gift that I ended up stealing from him!!!!

Lynn loves her COZEEE!!!!

Here are Yvonne, Jamie, Chris and Lynn at lunch at the Olive Garden!

Now I am off to Texas to see my sister, Leigh, and to see Ian and his family. I can't wait!!!

Early Christmas in Pleasanton

2009-12-14T22:06:00.000-08:00

I get 2 Christmases this year! I had fun with McKenzie and Brynn pretending it was Christmas so that they could open my presents. Not really the same as Christmas morning but still fun. Brynn was hilarious. She loved everything squealing with delight. So cute! McKenzie had fun handing out the gifts, reading the name tags. She wanted to play with everything. I just love being able to see them smile and enjoy the surprises of Christmas.

Here He Comes!!

2009-12-06T22:23:00.000-08:00

Looking through the eyes of a four year old makes Christmas so much more fun! I went with Brooke's family to get their tree and then we went to Pleasanton's Christmas Parade! Brynn was excited cause Kenzie was excited. But McKenzie was beyond excited. We went to the same tree lot that I always took my kids to. It was very nostalgic for me to shop for a tree there. The difference was I always made the kids go pick one out in the Douglas Fir section cause that was all I could afford. This time we were in the Noble Fir section. Those trees were beautiful!! Brooke was true to form- having a hard time making up her mind!! But they found the perfect tree and it turned out magical.

We thought this was the one but it was not to be!!

McKenzie was trying to keep Brynn from running off!!!

The end result- don't you agree it is magical??!!

Then we went downtown for the parade and mainly to see Santa at the end of the parade. Watching McKenzie go ballistic over waiting for Santa at the end of the parade was worth enduring the freezing cold for over 2 hours! As we were leaving- and could hardly walk from being frozen- all she could say was "That was so much fun! I don't want to go home!" I got fun pictures from the parade- but didn't get one of Santa..... Sorry Kenz. We were having too much fun watching you.

Here is McKenzie waiting for Santa to come down the street!

Brynn had fun with the glow in the dark necklaces!

Here he comes!!!!

Movie Quotes

2009-12-02T22:38:00.000-08:00

My friend, Rick, sent this to me. I love movies almost as much as he does. Just fun to watch- even though it is about 11 minutes..... I couldn't get it to post on Facebook correctly so not as many will see this but I loved it!

Thanksgiving Weekend

2009-11-29T13:02:00.000-08:00

First thing Thanksgiving morning I met Brooke and her family in Walnut Creek for a 10K Turkey Trot. Brooke ran her race then it was McKenzie's turn! She was so excited to run her first race. It was really fun to see how seriously she took this race. It wasn't very organized for the kids but she didn't know any different. She ran her race- all of 100 yards or so. She was very proud of her Participant Ribbon!! I had a fabulous dinner and fun time with Brooke's family for Thanksgiving! It was too short though. I had to get up and go back to Sacramento for work on Friday. Brooke cooked a great turkey and she made her homemade rolls. It was nice to be pretty low key. They went to see some friends for dessert while I stayed home with Brynn. I love the feast of Thanksgiving. But what was so cute was McKenzie- she made place cards for everyone. She loved helping to set the table. She wanted ketchup for her "chicken". Too funny.

I worked on Friday. It was so quiet. There were only 4 of us there. I didn't mind once I was there. I was able to get stuff done- there were no phones ringing. Chris and Lisa brought Thanksgiving leftovers in to share. That was nice and yummy!

Saturday was a crazy busy one. I hit the stores pretty early to do some Christmas shopping. For as long as I was out shopping I didn't get as much done as I had hoped. But I went with the flow and tried not to let the crowds get to me. I got one package in the mail which was quite an accomplishment! Then Marcia and I went to see New Moon. It was actually pretty good! But of course it leaves you hanging for Eclipse, which doesn't come put until next June.

Today was church. Then I spent the rest of the day just getting caught up around the house. I'm not putting a tree up since I won't be here... but I put a few things out to remind myself that it's Christmas. I talked with Aunt Rosemary for a long time. I hope when I am 89 years old I still have my memory and sense of humor like she does! She is definitely the sweetest person I have ever known.

In 3 weeks I get to see my other granddaughters for Christmas! I have a lot to be thankful for. A lot of gratitude in my heart.

Being Thankful

2009-11-23T23:14:00.000-08:00

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I'm not creative enough to come up with new unique things to talk about---- so in the spirit of Thanksgiving..... I want to let you all know how thankful I am for all that I am, all that I have, all that I know, and all whom that I know...... I truly have so much to be grateful for. My family is my whole life, my whole purpose for being. I am so grateful that in spite of all the mistakes I have made in my lifetime I am still so blessed to have so many wonderful people in my life. I worry that God is going to realize that my blessings really outweigh my adversities and he will think he needs to put more on the light side of the scale! So SSSSHHHHHH!

The older I get the more easily I cry, and the more easily I laugh. I have a different perspective to appreciate the small things. I find I am much more patient in my old age! Things that used to really frustrate me don't really anymore. I do admit though there are still a few things that push my buttons but for the most part I have really mellowed! I really appreciate the saying "If I knew then what I know now......" so true!!!

I am grateful for technology. I love that I can put two little buds in my ears and escape to a place where I can listen to my music and dream. I love that I can type on a keyboard and in an instant I can see my daughter's beautiful face and hear her voice from 7,000 miles away. I love the little box in my purse that rings while I am working at my desk- and I can talk to my granddaughter - changing my mood in a second to one that makes my day!

I am so grateful for my health. Since 1996 I have not taken my health for granted for ONE SECOND. I learned to be pro-active when it comes to my health. I am not afraid to ask for a second opinion, to insist on a test, to ask why or what if.

I am so very grateful for a Heavenly Father that has never left me alone- not for one minute. He has guided me, strengthened me, and encouraged me. He has blessed me with children that have far exceeded my every hope and expectation. He has blessed me with 2 son-in-laws and one daughter-in-law that I love very much. He has blessed me with the most precious granddaughters I could ever ask for. I look forward to more grandchildren to bless my life.

My life is far from perfect............ the list of things I wish I could change is a long one. But if I had to trade any one of my family members or friends to achieve that then I wouldn't do it. So I guess I will keep my wrinkly neck, my plus size, living in Sacramento, my out of date wardrobe, and my old car- and I will be thankful for it all!! Happy Thanksgiving!

Starting the countdown....

2009-11-15T20:25:00.000-08:00

The past 2 weeks have been busy busy as usual... Last weekend I was with McKenzie and Brynn. Brooke and Evan were able to go to the temple during the day. So, I joined Chris and Bill with their grandson, MJ, and Brianna with her little one, Ivy (another of Chris and Bill's grandchildren). We all went to Super Franks! It is like a bigger and updated Chucky Cheese. Only more expensive!!!! But the kids had fun. By the time we got out of there I was exhausted. It was fun to watch the kids having fun. Saturday night after Brooke and Evan got home we ended up staying in. I love just being at their house and playing with the kids. Sunday after church I headed home and took MJ with me to get him back to his mom and dad's in Sacramento. That 2 year old can talk and sing!!! He kept me company the whole way home!

MJ and Kenzie having fun with the cars

Brynn loved the cars!!!

Bri and Ivy

MJ is such a serious kid- but he really had fun on this car!

Kenzie had fun with the puppets!

Short video of Brynn- she can only go backwards in this car!

Brooke and her girls before church

During the week I worked and also got my visiting teaching done! Usually I wait until the end of the month but with Thanksgiving coming I wanted to make sure I got it done early. I love having Robin as my partner for the visiting teaching. She is so fun. I have friends here in Sacramento but not too many reallllllly good friends. My closest friends are still in the Bay Area and Southern CA. That is really my fault. I need to make more of an effort with my friends here. But I am always gone! I am either working or in the Bay Area. Doesn't mean I don't appreciate my friends here.

This past weekend was one of the few where I really had time for myself. I had to prepare to teach my RS lesson Sunday. I had a great Skype conversation with Cami! I went downtown to the Capitol building for a project you will hear about later. Other than that I was able to get some Christmas shopping done. I always plan on getting it done early- maybe this will finally be the year. But somehow I doubt it! The crowds were already getting to me! And it isn't even after Thanksgiving yet. So I will continue to do it in small doses. 39 days and counting!

Here come the holidays.....

2009-11-01T16:47:00.000-08:00

I never get too excited about Halloween. I did break down and go to a party a week ago! Friends from work dressed up soooo cute! I wanted to see everyone dressed up--- so I put a bunch of numbers on my sweater and went as "Someone you can count on". I know- I am a dork. But I'm not into the dress up thing at all! It was fun to be with friends and see everyone else though. For work we didn't do too much- we had a pot luck and a few brave souls dressed up- Yvonne was the best! There were lay-offs announced again at work but no one in my group was affected. I feel like the cat with nine lives and I am on number 7 or so!!

Chris and JD at Denise's Halloween party last week!

Bryan and Lisa at Denise's party! Bryan was Drew Brees and Lisa was Bumblebee!

Yvonne was a cute Raggedy Ann at work.

Judy was serenaded by Elvis!

Brooke and her family went to Fresno this weekend. I had a lot to do to catch up with at home. Talked to some good friends on the phone, went to get my flu shot, read a great book, and I even did some Christmas shopping!! They didn't need me at the church party after all so I went to the movies with Ronni-- and we saw Michael Jackson's "This Is It!" It was surprisingly really good!! I loved the music, I loved the dancing. He seemed almost normal in the movie! Such a sad story when you see all the work that went in to the concert and how close they were to the show. Then it didn't happen. Anyhow- the movie was great... I even cried at the end. What a surprise, I never cry at movies! =)

But today is the first day of November- and I am very nostalgic. The holidays are officially coming now. I miss my kids. I miss my grandkids. I miss my extended family. I just want to retire, so I can go be with them. I can't though. So I will get up and go to work tomorrow. I really am fortunate to work with people I care about. I just miss my family. I keep waiting to win the lottery. We play as a group at work. So whatever we win divided by 17 won't be a big fortune but it would sure help towards my retirement!! In the meantime- I will do my best to talk to my family and friends, and be mindful of how blessed I am. I will put my game face on.

October birthdays!!!

2009-10-18T19:35:00.000-07:00

This month is a crazy month for birthdays....... As I have gotten older it becomes harder and harder to keep up with all of them! Seems I am always a day or two late and a dollar or two short!! So many birthdays this month- I wish I had the time to be with each of the birthday people and to do something special with each one.

The month started off with Kathy's birthday on the 6th. Kathy and I have been friends for 24 years..... She has been with me through thick and thin! It has been an amazing experience to watch our kids grow up and become grandmothers together. She has a lot more grandkids than I do..... (15 to my 4!!) I appreciate all she has done for me over the years- more than I could ever say.

Kathy and Dan came all the way to Sweden for Cami's wedding. This was taken in Sandviken, Sweden.

On October 12th my beautiful granddaughter, Jenna, turned 4!!!!!!!!! She is such a special sweet spirit. She idolizes her big sister, Reagan. She is so loving and fun. Whenever I talk with her on the phone she makes me laugh so much. She is very animated and gets excited about everything, I can't wait to see her when I go to Dallas for Christmas!

Here is Jenna enjoying a hot dog with her Aunt Heidi!

Nine days after Jenna turned 4, my beautiful daughter-in-law, Anayansi, will have her birthday! Anayansi is such an important part of my family. I am so grateful for our relationship. She is a great friend to me, a wonderful wife to my son and an amazing mother to my precious granddaughters! It was so fun to have her with us in Sweden for Cami's wedding. I love her and can't wait to see her at Christmas too!!

This is Anayansi in Sweden on the dinner boat we went on one night!

Also on the 21st is my friend, Lynn's, birthday. Lynn sits across from me in the office. We are definitely co-horts in crime together!! We whine, scream, and laugh together. Our job can be extremely frustrating. Many times we feel as though we are on an obstacle course. Without Lynn I wouldn't be able to navigate the course!!! She is a cat lover like I am, and she loves to travel like I do. She is French Canadian and speaks French and has a crazy sense of humor. I am so fortunate to have her to work with and to have her as a friend.

Here is Lynn in Prague last month!

Next weekend on the 25th is my son-in-law, Evan's birthday. Evan is such a special guy. He is pretty soft spoken and very patient! He is the only male in the house! He is the perfect person for Brooke, and I love watching him with McKenzie and Brynn- he is a great dad to them. I am over there quite a bit and he is patient with me being there and maybe being too involved at times!!

This is one of my favorite pictures- Evan and Brynn

Then the 26th is my sister, Patti's, birthday. She lives in Leavenworth, Kansas, so I don't see her much. When our kids were little we lived close to each other and I treasure those days so much! Patti has such a great outlook on life. She has a hilarious sense of humor- has raised 4 wonderful daughters... or should I say 3 and is still raising one!! She is like most other moms that totally puts everyone else's needs ahead of her own. She is so generous and loving. I wish so much I could spend more time with her but she and her husband are busy, busy, busy with children and grandchildren.

Patti and her husband, Larry, during my visit to Kansas last March.

On Halloween my friend, Tracy, has her birthday too!!! I have known Tracy since we were kids. She graduated from high school with my sister, Susie's, class. Her older brother was my first boyfriend (When we were in 7th grade!!). I am so fortunate to have Tracy and Rick (who I graduated with!) here in Sacramento. I don't see them very often. Tracy is busy being a school teacher while Rick is busy being retired!! But if I ever need anything I know I can call Tracy and Rick. Tracy is a great mom to two beautiful grown daughters. She knows my history and is still my friend!!!!! This year she will be on the road for her birthday driving up to the Northwest... hope she has a wonderful day!

This is Tracy at her daughter, Jamie's, wedding last year!

To my family and my friends that have October birthdays- Happy Birthday! I am so blessed to have each of you in my life!

Cultured

2009-10-11T17:46:00.000-07:00

I am soooo cultured!!!! I went to 2 plays this week!!! I love live theater. I don't really go all that often but I had 2 different opportunities and I didn't want to miss out on either.

Last Wed. I went with Rick and Tracy to the B Street Theater to see The Maintenance Man. This theater does plays that are not as well known. This was a British comedy about a Divorcee and his relationship with his ex-wife and his new, younger, skinnier, prettier girlfriend... (Sound familiar?) It hit pretty close to home but I still liked it. It's always good to see Rick and Tracy too. We had dinner first at Hot Italian in mid-town. Good thin crust pizza!

Friday night Lynn and I went to Roseville to see Big River. A friend of ours from work was in the play so we wanted to go and be supportive. For community theater it was actually good! I didn't know the music from this play even though it has played on Broadway. I will be singing "Muddy Water" though for awhile now! Before the play we went to Claim Jumpers for dinner.... if you have ever eaten there then you know the portions are ridiculous. We shared an appetizer and a dinner- and it was still too much food!

Other than that my weekend was really quiet. I spent time shopping and reading. Mostly shopping!! Love weekends.

Brooke's Marathon Weekend

2009-10-04T23:01:00.001-07:00

While Brooke and Evan were in Utah I stayed with McKenzie and Brynn. After such a crazy weekend I am reminded that I am not a young mom anymore! I did manage to play doctor, store, school, family, went for walks, went to the park, went shopping, sang songs, did dances, built train tracks, colored pictures, made meals and snacks, gave baths, painted banners, and laughed and laughed. How I raised three children on my own I have no idea! The only thing I can think of is I was 30 years younger!! I am not complaining- just making an observation. I love any opportunity I get to be with my granddaughters. I wish so much I was closer to Ian's family so that I could spend more time with Reagan and Jenna too. Being with the little ones gives me purpose. There is such an unconditional love that a grandparent has. Just like being a parent but also different.

Brooke has so much to be proud of -- she not only completed the St. George Marathon, she did it in 3 hrs and 45 minutes! Unbelievable. She has such determination! She set a goal 4 months ago to complete this race. Truthfully- I don't think our bodies are meant to run 26.2 miles. But what do I know? I wish I could have been at the finish line to cheer her on but I was happy to be home with the kids.

I always like to have something to look forward to. Now that Cami's wedding is over, and Brooke has run her marathon--- I will look to the holidays. In the meantime -- Life will settle down some. Work..... Autumn...... The cycle of life continues.

McKenzie playing with Play Dough

Brynn at the McDonald's playground

McKenzie doing her workbook pages for "school"

Where's Brynn????????

These are the banners McKenzie painted for her mom. (I wrote the words on the paper and she painted them!)

Brooke crossing the finish line!!!

A Low Key Weekend

2009-09-27T20:46:00.000-07:00

I had a pretty low key weekend- movies Friday night with Marcia. Then Saturday I went to Pleasanton- I know-- what a surprise! This is Brooke's last weekend to train for her marathon next week in Utah. So I thought I could help with the kids since Evan had to work. I stayed with Brynn while Brooke and McKenzie went to a birthday party. After their party we went shopping- that is always an adventure with 2 small children! Then I stayed with the kids while Brooke went to the RS Broadcast at church. I love to play with the girls. Entertaining 2 young ones is exhausting yet so satisfying. So I have a picture or two and a cute video of Brynn..... Proud Grandma strikes again!

Swedish Wedding Hymn

2009-09-20T21:19:00.001-07:00

I still want to share more from the wedding--- there was so much music the whole week leading up to the wedding and the wedding reception! So I am posting a video to give a glimpse of some of the music. I wish so much I had recorded more!!! This site is not taking the other videos yet. I think they are too big of a file. So for now-- here is a hymn that was sung in the church- in Swedish of course!

Staying Connected

2009-09-13T20:21:00.000-07:00

I had such a fun weekend with McKenzie and Brynn- and oh yea- Brooke and Evan! It's true what they say- when your kids have kids the whole game changes. I go to see the grandkids and if I see Brooke and Evan then that's great too! =) Sorry Brooke- but I think you already knew this! I can't wait until Christmas when I finally get to go see Reagan and Jenna again.

When I went through my cancer 13 years ago I just prayed to live long enough to see my kids graduate from high school. Now I am greedy and want to live long enough for my grandkids to remember me!!! And since I have more grandkids to come I plan on being around for a long time. My grandchildren inspire me all the time-- to do better. They are my do-overs....... what I failed at as a parent I get another chance to do it better this time. Even though I am not the parent I can still look at this opportunity as a grandmother to be a better example, to be more patient, to have more fun. You get the point. I love my girls!!!!!!

Reagan is 7 and in 2nd grade!

Jenna will be 4 in October

McKenzie turned 4 in August

Brynn is 15 months

To expand further - Staying connected to family is so important..... Today was a great day for that. I talked with my brother, John. He recently relocated back to the U.S. after living in Costa Rica for 2 years. I am happy we will be able to talk more now that he is more easily available.

John surfing in Costa Rica

Then I talked to my Aunt Rosemary--- yesterday was her 89th birthday. Two years ago she was the subject of my very first blog. I love her so much - she has been my surrogate mom for over 30 years.

My visit to see Rosemary last March in Oklahoma.

After talking to Rosemary for an hour I talked to my sister, Leigh. She is in Houston and I will be seeing her at Christmas time too. Then I called my other sister, Patti, but she didn't answer.

My sisters, Leigh and Patti

Next I was able to talk to my sister, Susie. She is in Seattle. Thank goodness her husband's family is in the Bay Area- so I am able to see them a couple of times a year usually.

My sister, Susie, and her family.

In between all of my other family calls I also manage to stay in touch with my kids. Those are the calls that get me through my routine days. That is what really matters to me--- staying connected.

California State Fair

2009-09-07T19:54:00.000-07:00

For the 6 years I have lived in Sacramento I have never gone to the State Fair. I did the County Fair in Pleasanton many many times when the kids were growing up. So I never felt the need to go here. But they were selling the tickets at work and decided that I should go. Brooke and her family came last night so that we could go to the fair today. McKenzie and Brynn were so cute. They had fun- Kenzie with a few rides and Brynn loved the animals. Kenzie was not a fan of any of the animals!!!

McKenzie thought she was pretty cool on this little jeep!

Brynn loved petting all the animals.

We were also able to go to Bryan and Lisa's for dinner last night. Kenzie had a blast playing with Ayden. They have a bunch of great toys for the kids, and they have a pool! So it was a fun night hanging out with friends, in between herding the kids from the pool to the bounce house to the bikes and to the playhouse. Kenzie was in heaven and Brynn tagged along!!!

McKenzie and Ayden kept sharing the helmet as they took turn on the bike!

Brynn loved the slide in the bounce house!!

Swedish cheese

2009-09-07T19:40:00.000-07:00

The Swedes have a custom of eating cheese with just about every meal. They put it on the table with Flatbread. I love it! So when I got home--- I decided to get some and do the same thing. Especially since Brooke and her family were coming this weekend, I knew she would love it too. But finding the cheese is a challenge. Swedes have a whole section in the grocery store just for the big blocks of cheese. My deli doesn't have anything that compares. Finally when I went to Sam's club- I found "Swedish Fontina Cheese". So I bought it. Then had to find the cheese slicer and the flatbread. Well, I found the slicer. But haven't found the flatbread. I know it's out there. Just haven't found it yet! I found flatbread crackers for now. But in the meantime---- I like to relive the memories of being in Sweden.... not to mention-- I really like the cheese.

What a trip (part 2)!

2009-09-04T20:38:00.000-07:00

So...... after 10 days in Stockholm, I then flew over to Amsterdam. Originally, I was going to go and stay in a hotel and be by myself. But, after my brother John's girlfriend, Jeannette, found out I was coming to Amsterdam, which is close to where she lives..... she invited me to stay with her. I could not have been more blessed!!! She has a beautiful home with room for a guest. I could not have asked for a better situation. She met me at the airport-- which is also connected to the train station. We got on the train and went to her town, Lelystad. I had never met her face to face before! After 10 minutes of being with her I knew we would get along really well. Not only that -- I had a blast! The next morning we got up and got back on the train to go into Amsterdam. She was an excellent tour guide. We walked for miles and miles!! What a city it is.... all the buildings are out of the 1500's and 1600's. AMAZING. Canals and bridges everywhere. People everywhere. Bicycles EVERYWHERE!!!!!! We shopped and ate and shopped and ate! That night we went to her daughter's house warming gathering. I met Ilse, her boyfriend, Daniel, Jeannette's parents, Peter (Pete) and Matilda (Til), and Daniel's family. It was a fun night- listening to everyone speaking Dutch most of the time.

Jeannette

One of many beautiful old churches in Amsterdam

Beautiful flowers were all over the place!

Apple Pie and Coca Cola Light for a snack.(In Europe they don't sell Diet Coke- they have Coca Cola Light, and it tastes different)

Christiann (sister-in-law), Til, the other grandmother, Jeannette, Ilse, Daniel and Pete.

My 2nd full day in The Netherlands, I went into Amsterdam by myself. Because Jeannette had done such a good job showing me around the first day, I knew where to go. I took the Canal Cruise- The "Museum Hop On Hop Off". So after awhile on the boat- I got off to do the tour of the Ann Frank House. What an emotional tour that was. I heard the church bells she heard that she talks about in her book. I walked behind the bookcase the hid the stairs up to their living quarters- and walked up the stairs. I stood in each room that she shared with 7 other people. I saw the toilet that they used. And at the end of the tour of each of the small rooms, I saw the actual diary that she wrote in. It is under glass. Her handwriting is beautiful. I have known her story all of my life. But to see where they actually were hiding for 2 years....well, all I can say is WOW. After the tour of the house, I got back on the boat for awhile. I got back off to go see the Rijks Museum. I was there for 2 hours- looking at Rembrandts, Vermeers, and other beautiful paintings. After I got my cultural fill I got back on the boat and finished the canal tour. Then I shopped and got back on the train back to Lelystad. That night we ate at home and I met Nils, Jeannette's gorgeous son! ( and I forgot to get a picture of him.... darn!!!!)

This is a parking garage for bikes!

This is the Ann Frank House- the original building is covered up to protect it- but the inside is the real thing.

The entrance to the Rijks Museum. No pictures allowed inside.

I loved this beautiful house.

Another beautiful church.

On the train back to Lelystad- I saw this windmill!

My 3rd day Jeannette was off work again- so we decided to go shopping right in Lelystad. But the exciting part of the day was that we went shopping- not by car but by bicycle!!! I had not ridden a bike in years!!! But what they say is true- you never forget. We had a crazy fun day shopping, eating lunch out, shopping, and then eating dinner out. In between all of these adventures over the 4 nights and 3 days I was there, I also met her sister, Petra, that lives next door. And we talked and talked and talked and talked!!!!! I even got to speak to John several times..... Jeannette is a very special person. She is a good listener, has such a great sense of humor, and I must say... good taste in men! She loves my brother doesn't she?!! I have a new wonderful friend, and can't wait to see her again. So Jeannette, thank you for making my trip to The Netherlands so memorable. Please come see me in California so that I can reciprocate!!!!

Jeannette's home.

Ready to ride my bike to go shopping!

A Dutch ship from the 1600's.

Jeannette with her sister, Petra.

What a trip!!!!!!!!!

2009-08-31T15:04:00.000-07:00

I can't believe that I am back already!!! I had such an amazing time in Sweden and The Netherlands. How fortunate I am to have been able to take such a journey.

So much happened in such a short period of time. It was so fun. Seeing Cami and Klas so happy and in love was so special. The wedding and the reception were the best wedding and the best party I have ever been to. And none of that is to my credit. Cami and Klas made such great choices. The music, the church, the venue for the party, the people involved were all part of the picturesque setting that have etched in my mind the most beautiful scenes!!!!! Having all 3 of my children together was so wonderful too. I was sad that Brooke's husband, Evan, could not be there. Maybe next year we can have all the children and their spouses together.

Pictures tell a better story- so here are a bunch......

Cami and I outside their apartment.

Klas had a performance in Stockholm at Skansen. It was a Tribute to Ray Charles!

Ian, Anayansi, and Brooke came in on the same day!

Jamie, Mikey, Mondo (Cami's U.S. friends) and Karin, Klas's sister, joined the rest of us for dinner.

Here we are checking out the building where Cami works!

Klas had another performance on a dinner boat- with one of his bands-Kustbandet.

Dan and Kathy came in from the US and joined us at a dinner for 15 at a great Indian Restaurant.

Cami and I at the dinner

I am ready for the wedding!

Ian walking his sister down the aisle.

Lighting the Unity Candle

Mr. and Mrs. Toresson!!!

The bridesmaids- Anna, Karin, Jamie, Brooke

Off to the reception!

The reception venue- Strandbaden

My 3 beautiful grown children at the reception.

Ian and Anayansi

Kathy and Dan came from Pleasanton for the wedding!!!

Cami's life long friends, Mondo and Mikey, came from California too.

Their first dance as Mr. and Mrs.

Cutting the cake!

The morning after- me with my family.

Cami and Klas getting ready to leave on their honeymoon to Greece!

So this is only a few of the hundreds of pictures we have! I will post my trip to Amsterdam in a day or two. I am still dealing with jet lag!!!! But I can't say enough about the amazing time we all had together. I am so thrilled for Cami and Klas. I miss them terribly already. But I couldn't be happier for them!

CWA District 9 Reaches Tentative Agreement with AT&T West

2009-08-10T20:45:00.000-07:00

One anxiety down!!!!!!!!!! I got a text at 5:42 am today with the good news that the contract negotiations have been successful! It has to be voted on for ratification on Sept 1st. I am not worried- and at least now I know I can take my trip and not have to come home early!! Everyone at work was so happy today. It was nice that everyone was telling me how happy they were that I can go on vacation with no worries of the strike. The union members will get their raises but now have to pay for health care plans. I haven't had a raise in 3 years (and have always paid for my health care plan)--- the joys of management. But today I am not thinking of that. I am just thrilled to be able to go on my vacation for the full 2 weeks. Now, if I can just get over my claustrophobia.............

P.S. I won the office pool betting there would be no strike at all- I said they would negotiate without striking. Everyone else had picked a day they thought the strike would happen. WHAT DID I WIN??? Lunch!!! So when I get back from vacation- we will all go out to lunch and I don't have to pay! Yippee!!

McKenzie's birthday party and Countdown begins!!!!

2009-08-09T21:17:00.000-07:00

It was so fun to watch McKenzie at her birthday party- soaking up the attention one minute and then shy the next. She had family and friends there to share with her all the excitement. I know she had fun with her friends and cousins. Usually she is there with me 100 %. But that day- she was so involved with the kids. She had been waiting for the day forever, and I don't think she was disappointed! She loved the pinata, the cake, the presents, playing dress up with Elyette, and playing basketball with her Uncle Sam. Brynn had fun with everyone too. She loves her new found freedom with walking so she had fun walking around to everyone. Fun party --- fun day!

The kids at the party!

Taking a swing at the soccer ball pinata!

Playing dress up with her cousin- she's wearing the tutu, wings and hairband her Aunt Maegan made her.

And the Countdown begins!!!!!! Next weekend is the beginning of the long anticipated trip to Sweden for Cami and Klas's wedding. I am so excited I can hardly stand it. I have anxiety over getting all my work done before I go so I will be working longer hours this week. I have anxiety over the strike at work- we are still waiting for the Union to either strike or settle the contract negotiations. If they go out on strike while I am in Sweden I am expected to cut my trip short and be home 5 days earlier than planned. I have anxiety over packing and not forgetting anything yet keeping my suitcase under 50 lbs! I have anxiety over being cooped up in an airplane at 30,000 ft in the sky, flying over the ocean and having claustrophobia!!! Yet I am willing to endure the anxieties because I am going to a beautiful country to see my youngest child get married in a 500 year old church in the Swedish countryside to the man of her dreams! It is going to be one exciting adventure.

The happy couple!

The church where we will all be on August 22.

McKenzie is 4!!!!!!!

2009-08-02T21:19:00.000-07:00

I can't believe that another year has gone by and McKenzie turned 4 today! She has been anticipating this day for a long time!!!!! She had a great day today- at church the Primary kids sang Happy Birthday to her. She told me she smiled back at everyone!! How cute. Her mom and dad gave her a new 16 inch two wheeler with training wheels. So she is feeling pretty big! She is so creative and animated. I have no doubt that what ever she sets her mind to as she grows older she will be successful. She is one intense kid! I love you Kenz......... thanks for all the joy you have brought to us!

WICKED

2009-08-02T20:59:00.000-07:00

I think I am the last person I know to see Wicked. Brooke and I went in to San Francisco Friday night to see it. What a blast. I knew the music already (Brooke saw it last year in L.A. and had the CD). I think that made it more fun for me..... If by some chance there are a few of you out there that haven't seen it I can testify that it was well worth it!!!! Go see it! I am still singing "Popular" in my head!

A New Toy!

2009-07-19T22:53:00.000-07:00

I have been so busy and too tired to post lately.... working a lot and when I am not working I am not home anyhow! I am shopping to get ready for my big trip to Sweden. I finally found what I am wearing for the wedding. THANK GOODNESS!!!!! And I bought a new purse! Needed one anyhow and the trip was a great excuse. My other exciting purchase is a new 16G iPOD Nano!!!! (yes, 16 Gigs!) I have been using Brooke's hand-me-down Shuffle for a loooooonnnnnnngggggg time. So I finally did it. I am so excited! I like to think I am pretty tech savvy-- and yet here I was listening to this little Shuffle that is about 3 or 4 years old. It only holds about 100 songs so I was alway changing things out on it. The thought of getting on the plane for that 16 hour trip without decent music was a depressing thought. So, needless to say, I will be busy downloading some new stuff from iTunes!! Any suggestions out there???? Let me know-- I like most music - except for hard rock and rap crap. I actually have about 900 songs on my computer- but the iPOD will hold a lot more than that. I even downloaded my first music video--- "We Are the World"!! I know- I'm a dork! But Lynn showed me on her iPOD that she had it and it was so fun to see all those people and hear that song again. So I downloaded it. I better get busy! So many songs.... so little time!

40th High School Reunion!!!!! Are you kidding?????

2009-07-06T21:34:00.000-07:00

Where have the years gone??? High school was another lifetime ago-- yet I cherish those days!!! The people I went to CHS with know me like no one else can. Many I have stayed in touch with over the years. Others I haven't and this past weekend was so fun to catch up on the past years. Our reunion was such a blast. It was at the home of one of my classmates' husband's childhood home- does that make sense?? Anyhow- it is a beautiful big house- we were out on the tennis courts and back yard. There were caterers, a photo booth, a dessert room, a dance floor with a great DJ, and memorabilia all over the place! I had so much fun seeing people. To make it even more fun my sister, Susie, flew down from Seattle to go with me. She was Class of '71. I forgot to mention that there were also quite a few people there from Classes of '68, '67. '66, '70, and '71. What a great group it was!!!

Susie and I stayed with friends, Susie and Steve, in Mission Beach at their beautiful condo. It was right on the water with the view of the fireworks at Sea World. I am so fortunate to have such generous friends. The atmosphere at the beach is one that fills a void in my soul. Something about being by the water takes me to my "happy place"!

Friends are sooooo important. All of my friends are important to me for different reasons. The friends I was with this past weekend knew me as a kid, and a teenager. The bond is special because of that. I had a tough situation with my parents growing up so I really needed my friends. They were my refuge- my escape. Joanie and Carol's parents were surrogate parents to me. The only one still alive is Carol's mom, Nancy, and I was able to see her this weekend too. So the itinerary was Thursday night -- my 40 Year Reunion; Friday night was the All Class Reunion at the Golf Course Club House (that happens every year), Saturday morning was the 4th of July Parade (that is the best parade in all of California, possibly the whole country!), then Saturday night was Fireworks in San Diego (we weren't able to stay in Coronado for the fireworks there). In between all those activities we managed to go shopping, visit friends' houses, walk along the Bay and the Beach, and out to dinner with more friends. By the time I got home last night (I drove)I was totally exhausted!!! But well worth it. During the weekend I felt young again being with those people. Now I feel OLD because I am so tired!!! I need to get to bed to catch up on my sleep!!!

The Darnell Mansion- also known as the Pink House- where the Reunion was.

Susie Young (Class of '71) with my sister, Susie, and I.

Joanie, Ellen, and Susie ( there were FOUR Susies there this past weekend!!)

Catching up with Fay and Janis

One of the fun pictures from the photo booth!!

Hanging out in the dessert room!

Sisters at the All Class Reunion

The crowd at the parade

The Theobalds made it over to Coronado from San Diego to watch the parade, Barb also ran the 5K earlier!!

We didn't see much of the parade- too busy talking!

I had a wonderful visit with Nancy Crabill- 91 yrs old!

Comic Relief

2009-06-28T20:13:00.000-07:00

It is officially summer........... Over 100 degrees 2 days in a row. I was in Pleasanton for the weekend at Brooke and Evan's. It was so hot there. (Sacramento was worse!) We managed to be indoors most of the time. But when we weren't it was almost overwhelming. I had so much fun with McKenzie and Brynn this weekend. Brooke and Evan went out Friday night. Brooke said Kenzie could stay up later so I took her literally! When they got home at 9 we were still reading books. Being the party animal that I am I figured we would live dangerously! Of course, she still woke up just before 7am on Saturday morning so it didn't help getting her to sleep in later like I thought it might! I really know better- that kid has more energy than anyone I have ever seen- including any of my own children at that age! She is non- stop 100% of the time.

Brynn is at a great stage- she is so close to walking- probably about 3 weeks away is my guess. She is one funny kid. My greatest moment with her was when her mom tried to take her out of my grasp and Brynn clung tightly to me not wanting to go to her mom!! Yea- she finally realizes too along with McKenzie, Reagan and Jenna that Grandma loves to spoil them and they know where their bread is buttered!

I left P-Town early today- and ended up going into the office for 4 hours. Brooke and Evan had Stake Conference which I didn't know about ahead of time. So I still couldn't get to my church on time. Instead- I headed for work. I have so much work to do that I could work 12 hours a day for the next month straight- no weekends off - and I would still not be caught up. I try not to let it get to me- but on Friday the PRINTER MADE ME CRY!!! That is bad. I am just reaching that point of frustration that nothing is easy. Every project I have is complex and tedious. I don't know how long it is going to be this way. But I don't see any end in sight for now. My friend,Lynn, summed it up pretty well. Step 1 -- get frustrated. Step 2--Get angry. Step 3-- Cry. And Step 4-- Laugh. I finally got to Step 4 later on Friday. And this week I do have an awesome 4 day weekend coming up next weekend- so that will get me through Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday! It is going to be a great post next week.... I will be telling you all about my high school reunion. OH- I can't wait to feel 16 all over again! =)

McKenzie in one of the 12 different outfits she put on in 2 1/2 days!

Brynn loves the new chair Debbie and Greg bought her for her birthday!

Cute family on their way to Stake Conference.

Brynn is ONE!!!!!!!

2009-06-22T20:40:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday to my little Brynn. A year ago today I was in San Diego for a friend's daughter's wedding. My trip was cut short- I changed my plans to hurry back because Brooke went into labor and had Brynn about 10 days early. So I was back in the Bay Area about 9 hours after she was born. I took over with McKenzie (Boz is a great babysitter). We went to the hospital to meet her new baby sister. McKenzie was so cute- she was sooooo excited.

Brynn is such a joy- she smiles so much. I think she smiles in her sleep cause she is always smiling. For being only one year old she has a wonderful sense of humor too. She plays a game -when you tell her "NO" she laughs and just keeps doing what she is not supposed to be doing! She will stop to see your reaction and then laugh and do it again. She lights up so much when she watches her big sister. When she is upset- it is McKenzie that can soothe her the fastest. It is precious to see her interact with her mom and dad. Her dad throws her in the air and she loves it!!!!! But when push comes to shove- she wants her mom. She loves to cuddle!

She loves strawberries, popsicles, and her blankie! I don't remember what life was like before she was on this earth! She adds so much to our family. Happy Birthday Brynn. Grandma loves you so much! I will see you this weekend.

Kelly's wedding

2009-06-14T21:12:00.000-07:00

This past week was eventful! I had the pleasure of attending Kelly and Marcus's wedding on Thursday evening. I have known Kelly since she was in first grade. She grew up with my kids in Pleasanton. It was so fun to see her become a Mrs! When I think of her as a child I think of her doing flip flops across her front lawn. She was a fantastic gymnast. She was more comfortable playing sports with the boys then dolls with the girls! However- she has grown into a beautiful woman. She and Marcus have an adorable 2 year old son, MJ. He was so cute in his tuxedo at the wedding! Kelly and Marcus are currently enjoying their honeymoon in Tahoe. So congratulations Mr. and Mrs. Roman. I wish you happiness and love always.

Family Pictures

2009-05-31T21:20:00.000-07:00

I had a great weekend- being home and catching up on things. I worked in my garden- planting new plants, worked on some craft stuff, read a lot, and then I started scanning pictures... I have a gazillion pictures that are not digital. Some day I will have all these pictures organized, One of my fears is that I will die before the pictures are organized and my kids won't know what to do with them all! I keep finding pictures that I want to share... I know they get annoyed when I send them a pictures to share (that they have already seen many times!). Now to further the situation I want to share them with all my friends and family that take the time to read this site... The older I get the more important my genealogy becomes. The church is big on genealogy and I have known that for years and years. Maybe now that my kids are grown I have more time to think about it. In any event- if it weren't for our ancestors we would not be here!! I Iove these pictures that follow! So indulge me......

My grandfather on my mom's side- Miles Maxwell, during World War I

My grandparents, Miles and Evelyn Maxwell, right after they were married around 1915.

My dad, John Jr., as a baby with his dad, John, 1925

My parents with my dad's mom, Sophia, about 1946

My dad as a young Navy Ensign in his 20's

My mom, Jane, in her late 20's

Me when I was 3!

Memorial Day Weekend

2009-05-25T19:50:00.000-07:00

Three days can really fly by fast when I am having fun and not thinking of work! I stayed close to home Friday night- just enjoying quiet time and getting ready for the weekend. On Saturday morning however, I was up and running early.... not literally but figuratively! I left the house pretty early, and stopped off at Lynn's house to see her new baby kittens. See my previous blog to know what I am talking about. They are sooooooo cute!!!

This is London looking at me down the tunnel!

Lynn holding Venice!

Then off to Pleasanton I went to spend the weekend with Brooke and her family. Right after I got there - Chris and MJ came over too. It was great to visit with them.... McKenzie and MJ finally warmed up to each other and had fun in the back yard, He just turned 2 and is such a funny little guy!! It is a great thing for me to share being a grandparent with my friends that are grandparents too. We can relate on a whole new level! I didn't get any pictures while they were there- just got caught up in the moment and forgot!

Saturday night Brooke and Evan went out and I stayed with the girls. I love just hanging out with them- even if it gets a little crazy at times. Sunday we went to church and then over to Kathy and Dan's for dinner. They had their 3 grandchildren there- and as usual it was controlled chaos!!! Today, being Memorial Day, we started out with a holiday breakfast at Pleasanton Second Ward! Brooke and Evan are on the Activities Committee so they had to be there early to set up. I came a little later with the girls to a great breakfast of eggs, pancakes and bacon. The weather was perfect and we ate outside where all the tables were set up.

Getting ready was pretty funny with McKenzie-- she is in this phase of not wanting to be "pretty" but wanting to be "Cool". How in the world does a 3 year old know what it is to be cool??????? But actually she does a pretty good job of being cool, as far as 3 year olds go!! And Brynn is so funny! She makes a funny little sound when she is hungry. She is very vocal and expressive! And her giggle is to die for... She does a great job doing her "tricks"- waving bye bye, answering the phone by putting her hand up to her ear when you say"hello?", gives kisses and hugs upon request, and squeals with delight whenever McKenzie comes into her line of sight!

And I digress--- after a nap we all went off to the mall- along with a gazillion other people! After a couple of hours I finally had to head for the Capital City. The last few hours of my 3 day break I was able to talk to Ian and his family. Reagan has 2 weeks of 1st grade left and is really excited for summer. Jenna had her ballet recital last week, and told me about their friends that came over for a barbeque today. I miss them sooooo much!!!! A few more family and friends phone calls was a perfect way to end my weekend!

McKenzie being "Cool" at the church breakfast.

Here she is looking pretty but I didn't tell her that!!!!

Brynn loves he blankie!

A minute and 22 seconds in the life of Brynn!

A Kitten Shower!

2009-05-19T22:17:00.000-07:00

Today we had a Kitten Shower for Lynn at work! You know- wedding shower, baby shower??? So we had a kitten shower! Lynn lost her beloved 17 year old cat, Winky, about a month ago. It was really tough for her, needless to say..... So she decided not to wait long to get a new little Meow- but this time she decided on TWO! She found two precious little kittens, a male and a female, from a rescue group. She will actually be able to bring them home this weekend. So, because we care about Lynn and we are excited for her to have these new little kitties- we decided to have a surprise shower for her! Yep, a full blown shower- balloons, refreshments, presents, and even party favors! I know- maybe a little cheesy... and don't worry-- she is not a weird Cat Lady!! Besides- we needed some fun at work. We are all working way too hard right now so this was a fun break. I love surprises- at least for other people!

We even made her wear a "Hello Kitty" Necklace for the party!

Watching her open her gifts!

Lake Tahoe!

2009-05-11T21:01:00.001-07:00

Brooke, Evan, McKenzie and Brynn in front of the condo in Tahoe.

So.... I slowly came back from the depths of "The Dark World of the Flu". I am still dealing with the after effects- terrible cough and headache. But compared to how I felt I am doing so much better! In fact I was up to a weekend away with Brooke, Evan and the girls! We went to Tahoe for 2 nights and 3 days- it was FABULOUS!! My sister, Susie, and her husband were generous enough to offer their condo in Tahoe for the weekend. It was so fun! The town was really quiet- no more skiing and summer isn't here yet- so it is is their down time. The pool was still closed- and it was too cool to think about it anyhow. But we managed to get in a great competition of miniature golf, a great dinner out, some long walks, great ice cream treats, and best of all some fun family together time. We even made friends with the local blue jays and got them to eat our treats out on the balcony deck- with us sitting 2 feet away inside the sliding glass doors! McKenzie loved that! I feel so fortunate to live where I can get to the mountains and beautiful Lake Tahoe within 2 hours. Thanks to Susie and Pete for the wonderful place to stay!

Sick, Sick , Sick.....

2009-05-04T20:05:00.000-07:00

With all the hype the media is giving the swine flu I feel like that is why I got sick. It isn't the swine flu- or H1N1- but it's just the good old fashioned flu. So much for flu shots, huh????? I will think twice about getting one next year- when this years' didn't do me any good! I am at least feeling well enough now to be able to sit at the computer and catch up with emails, blogging, etc. I got sick a week ago today with the chills and aches. It went along all week like that, feeling crummy and pushing myself through the day. Then I would go home and collapse at night. Come Friday however, I could not make it through the day at work. I left early and went home to bed. And there I stayed for 3 days! Actually I drug myself to Kaiser flu clinic on Sat. for an hour. They didn't even do anything for me other than to say I don't have the H1N1 and that I need to drink fluids and rest. No Kidding!!! So I slept and watched TV. I tried reading but my eyes were burning too much. Mostly I slept. After too many episodes of House Hunters, Color Splash, Curb Appeal, Rachel Ray, Paula Dean, Bobby Flay I was able to find a great concert on PBS with Ingrid Michaelson. But for the most part I could not make it through an entire show. I just dozed off and on. At this point I do not want to look at another bowl of chicken soup or applesauce!! I went to work today- and my co-workers were mad at me for bring the cooties back to them! I left early again.... but tonight Marcia brought me clam chowder and bread. It was just what I wanted! Marcia had pneumonia 6 weeks ago so she can relate to how I am feeling. I am so fortunate to have friends to check in on me. Thanks Marsh! So here is to a better week......

Two quiet weekends in a row???

2009-04-26T22:29:00.000-07:00

It just hardly ever happens that I have 2 quiet weekends in a row! Usually I am driving to the Bay Area every other weekend.... Well, actually I did drive to Brooke and Evan's but only for this afternoon and evening. I was able to get a lot done around the house both weekends and I went to 2 movies! One last Saturday and one yesterday. The weather has been so beautiful. I got some planting done on my patio too!

I could have stayed home and continued my leisurely Sunday after church today. But I hadn't seen McKenzie and Brynn for 2 weeks so I decided to just go over for dinner. Now that they are in Pleasanton it is so much easier to drive there compared to when they were in Menlo Park. I have been trying to stick close to home in case AT&T goes on strike. The Union contract has expired and we are waiting to see if they are going to strike or accept the new contract. If the strike happens then I will be working 12 hours a day, 6 days a week.. IF it happens. So we'll see. I have been classified as essential so I won't have any different assignment other than my own job. Some of my peers have strike assignments- as techs, operators, service reps,etc. I am thankful I am pretty specialized working with government accounts-- so I will stay at my own desk. But since there are fewer people we are all expected to work the longer hours. So listen for the news in the next week or two- hopefully by then it will be settled.

One other quick mention - Congratulations to Brooke and Evan- for celebrating their 5th Anniversary!!! They have a beautiful family and a beautiful marriage.

Evan, Brooke, Brynn and McKenzie at the park today!

Gratulera med dagen till min skön dotter!

2009-04-11T22:10:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday to my beautiful daughter!! She is 25! Where does the time go?! She is on the other side of the world so I can't give her a big birthday hug. But she knows I am thinking of her!! She is busy planning her wedding that will be in Sweden this summer. I can hardly wait!!!

McKenzie and I made Easter cupcakes tonight. She thinks they are in honor of Cami's birthday! So in addition to Easter- they are birthday cakes for Cami. I know Cami is an adult and living her own independent life, which is the way it should be.... but I really wish I could be with her for her birthday. This is her 3rd birthday in a row that I haven't been able to be with her. Sweden is still pretty cold in April so it may be awhile longer before I can be with her on her birthday!! ( I don't do cold very well!) Have a good day Cam- we all love you and miss you so much!

Reagan is 7!!!!!!!!!

2009-04-08T19:19:00.000-07:00

I can hardly believe my oldest granddaughter is 7 today!!! She is growing up wayyyyyy too fast! I was able to be with her last month but I wish so much I could be with her to celebrate with her and the rest of the family today. I could not be more proud of how wonderful she is. Not only is she a beautiful child on the outside she is beautiful on the inside too. She is such a good sister to Jenna! She is taking her friends to the movie "Hannah Montana" for her birthday party! How fun! I love you Reag and miss you soooo much! Have a Happy Birthday!!

Club 33

2009-03-30T21:58:00.001-07:00

This past weekend was so fun! My friend, Ronni, retired from AT&T. To celebrate we were able to go to Disneyland and experience Club 33. It is a private club (of which AT&T is a member) right in the middle of Disneyland above Pirates of the Caribbean. You have to hit the buzzer to let them know you are there. Then they come down and get you. It only has a "33" on the outside of the door so not real obvious to the usual tourist in Disneyland. The ambience is amazing- very elegant. You do not feel the excitement of Disneyland going on outside. Instead, you feel as though you are in a special restaurant - which you are.... not the usual wait in line for half an hour and then have to try and find a seat amongst hundreds of others in the heat. Instead, there were 2 tables reserved for 19, very attentive waiters, great salads, entrees, fancy desserts, gorgeous interiors. Very impressive and very exclusive. How lucky was I to able to be a part of the celebration!!! It was a fast trip. I did manage a visit with Joanie and Allen. So special note to Barb and other friends and family in So CAL-- I did not have time to get down to San Diego like I would have!

Ronni outside Club 33.

Ronni and family at their table.

The bar, salad and dessert tables.

Hallway in between our room and the salad and desserts.

My halibut and couscous.

The AT&T group- Jamie, Chris, Debbi, Ronni, Cathy, Me, and Anna

Ronni's 3 chidren and 2 grandchildren came to celebrate her 36 years with AT&T!

Cathy and Chris

Joanie and the newest addition to her family- Maddie!

Reagan and Jenna!

2009-03-15T20:29:00.000-07:00

I am late posting but couldn't pass up the opportunity to share my visit with Reagan and Jenna (oh yea- and Ian and Anayansi!!) last week. I only had a few days and didn't get to see everyone in Dallas that I wanted to. But I was able to have so much fun- having tickle parties, story times, dance-offs, and some good old fashioned shopping! I love being involved in their daily lives- something I don't get a chance to do often. I even got to have lunch with Reagan at her school and meet her teacher! I am amazed at how well Reagan can play her violin now- and how well she is reading!! She is growing up so fast!! And Jenna is growing too fast too. For a 3 year old-she has her own distinct likes and dislikes. She loves to color and read books. She plays so well by herself. She LOVES to dress up!! Every time I turned around Jenna was changing her clothes - putting on her Minnie dress, or princess dress or just a cute skirt so she could dance.

It was wonderful to spend time with Ian and Anayansi too, of course. Ian managed to spend some good quality time with me even though he had to work some on Saturday and Sunday. They were able to get away for a date for dinner. I "sacrificed" and stayed with the girls!!! Yea- right! We had a blast while mom and dad were gone!

I did get to see my cousins, Grace, Vicki and Roger. It was fun to visit with them at Roger and Vicki's office. We saw their son and his family too. Then I was able to see Grace and her daughter, Alison, and her husband and step-son. The visits were too short but it was nice to see them. I hope next time I go I have more time to see more family and just spend more time with Ian and his family.

Silly Reagan and Jenna!

Ian and Reagan before church

Anayansi and Jenna at the beautiful mall in Frisco!

Reagan and her teacher.

I loved being Grandma and reading to the girls...

Cousins- Vicki, Grace and me

Ragan on the violin!

Jenna wants to be like her big sister!!

Kansas and Oklahoma!

2009-02-26T20:36:00.000-08:00

I just got back from a great trip to visit family and walk down memory lane. I saw my sister, Patti, and her family. I saw cousins, and my aunt. I don't get to see them often enough so it was very special to be able to have this time with everyone. Patti is so fortunate to have all of her children within 45 minutes driving distance. They are a beautiful close knit family. They all work hard and help each other with the kids.

Patti and family

Patti and her husband, Larry

I had fun with Leslie's daughter, Gabby

Carrie holding Krissy's son, Nathan

Leslie and her kids, Christian, Gabby and Jeremiah

My niece, Krissy, and her daughter, Hannah

2 of my nieces- Sophie and her big sister, Leslie

After a couple of days, I rented a car and drove down to Oklahoma. My Aunt Rosemary came home from the nursing home to stay at my cousin, Kathie's. Rosemary was my mom's older sister. My mom died over 30 years ago- so it was Rosemary that I went to whenever I needed a mom's advice. She was in great spirits despite her health issues. My cousins, John and Suzanne, showed up for a surprise visit. I also saw Kathie and Ike's youngest daughter, Danielle, and her family. I love being connected to so many people- so many people that I love.

My cousins, John and Suzanne, came down from Wichita to visit with us at our cousins', Kathie and Ike's in Cherokee, OK

Kathie and Ike just celebrated their 43rd wedding anniversary!!!

I loved having time with Rosemary

Danielle and Chad, with their children-Colton, Tabor, Sagelynn and Davin.

Before leaving Oklahoma I took the time to go down to the cemetery where my mom, grandparents and aunt and uncle are. It is a quaint country cemetary. I hadn't been there for 26 years. I also went to see the house that used to be my grandparents' then my dad's house- in Enid. It was a very reflective and spiritual day for me.

Just like something in the movies- a true country cemetery.

These guys are right next to the cemetary.

This is the house that I grew up going to visit my grandparents in- then my dad lived there before he died.

After my visit to Oklahoma I went on back to Patti's for one night. It was such a great visit. I am back to work- getting ready for my next trip in 10 days to go see Ian and his family. I loved seeing my sister, her family, my cousins and my aunt. It makes me sad that we live so far apart. I am so grateful to have such a loving family.

Saying good-by to my sister at the airport.

Valentine's and 4 Days with Kenzie!

2009-02-17T19:34:00.000-08:00

Valentine's was pretty low key for me... Cute candies on my desk from co-workers.... and that was about it ---Or at least it was until I got flowers at work from Ian, Anayansi, Reagan, and Jenna. Tulips are my favorite too!! They are so beautiful- I even brought them home and took them with me to Brooke's since I was going to be gone for 4 days, I wanted to enjoy them completely. How lucky am I?????

So---------- What goes non-stop from sunup to way past sundown, never stops asking why, never ( I mean NEVER) sits still, has a crazy imagination, sings constantly, and has the cutest giggle around? Anyone that knows her knows I am talking about my precious little granddaughter, McKenzie. She is a bundle of love. Brooke, Evan and Brynn went up to Seattle for 4 days. She kept reminding me "It's just you and me, Grandma!" We did puzzles, played games, did crafts, went shopping, went out to lunch, played grocery store, painted ceramics at a craft store, and read a ton of books. We "heart attacked" Brooke and Evan's bedroom (put hearts we made up all over their room) and also made a cake and cupcakes for their homecoming. I am exhausted!!! But it was a blast. I laughed constantly! She is one hilarious kid. I wrote a few things down that she said - so I wouldn't forget.... like-- "Grandma- what is under the street? the earth?", "I think my dad would let me get out of bed" (this was said at 10pm....), When playing grocery store- after she gave me my change back- she said "thank you! Have a nice day!", and a heart breaker when she said "will I be 4 when my mom gets home?" I could go on and on....It was so fun. I love that kid! Now- back to work for a few days ( to get some rest!!). Then I am off to Kansas to see my sister, Patti, and her family, and then Oklahoma for a few days to see my Aunt Rosemary.

We played games

We did puzzles

We went to church

We walked in the rain.

We made hearts.

We went to Chevy's for lunch.

SSSSHHHHHHH!!! Don't tell mom and dad we ate cupcakes in the morning!

Happy Birthday Brooke and Leigh!!!!!!

2009-02-10T08:22:00.000-08:00

Today is my beautiful daughter, Brooke's, birthday!!! Happy Birthday honey. I love you with all my heart and hope your year to come is the best ever. You are the best mother and wife and daughter!!! I wish I could get over there for the day but will see you this weekend- at least on the way to take you and Evan to the airport!!! From a quiet little baby to a strong willed child to an awesome athlete to an amazing woman (and still the athlete) and mother. I am so proud to have you as my daughter!!!!

Happy Birthday to my sister Leigh!!!! I also wish I could be in Houston with you for your birthday!!! You have been the best example of being positive in no matter what the challenges. You have always been there for me. A great friend and a great big sis. I hope you have a great day!! Just know that I am thinking of you and miss you!!

2 of my sisters, Leigh and Patti

25 REASONS I OWE MY MOTHER

2009-02-08T20:42:00.000-08:00

Thanks to Lynn for sending this to me. I know I am guilty of having used many of these - but especially #s 19 and 25!!!

25 REASONS I OWE MY MOTHER

1. My mother taught me TO APPRECIATE A JOB WELL DONE.
'If you're going to kill each other, do it outside. I just finished cleaning.'

2. My mother taught me RELIGION.
'You better pray that will come out of the carpet.'

3. My mother taught me about TIME TRAVEL .
'If you don't straighten up, I'm going to knock you into the middle of next week!'

4. My mother taught me LOGIC.
' Because I said so, that's why.'

5. My mother taught me MORE LOGIC .
'If you fall out of that swing and break your neck, you're not going to the store with me.'

6. My mother taught me FORESIGHT.
'Make sure you wear clean underwear, in case you're in an accident.'

7. My mother taught me IRONY
'Keep crying, and I'll give you something to cry about.'

8. My mother taught me about the science of OSMOSIS.
'Shut your mouth and eat your supper.'

9. My mother taught me about CONTORTIONISM .
'Will you look at that dirt on the back of your neck!'

10. My mother taught me about STAMINA.
'You'll sit there until all that spinach is gone.'

11. My mother taught me about WEATHER.
'This room of yours looks as if a tornado went through it.'

12. My mother taught me about HYPOCRISY.
'If I told you once, I've told you a million times. Don't exaggerate!'

13. My mother taught me the CIRCLE OF LIFE.
'I brought you into this world, and I can take you out.'

14. My mother taught me about BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION.
'Stop acting like your father!'

15. My mother taught me about ENVY.
'There are millions of less fortunate children in this world who don't have wonderful parents like you do.'

16. My mother taught me about ANTICIPATION.
'Just wait until we get home.'

17. My mother taught me about RECEIVING .
'You are going to get it when you get home!'

18. My mother taught me MEDICAL SCIENCE.
'If you don't stop crossing your eyes, they are going to freeze that way.'

19. My mother taught me ESP.
'Put your sweater on; don't you think I know when you are cold?'

20. My mother taught me HUMOR.
'When that lawn mower cuts off your foot, don't come running to me.'

21. My mother taught me HOW TO BECOME AN ADULT.
'If you don't eat your vegetables, you'll never grow up.'

22. My mother taught me GENETICS.
'You're just like your father.'

23. My mother taught me about my ROOTS.
'Shut that door behind you. Do you think you were born in a barn?'

24. My mother taught me WISDOM.
'When you get to be my age, you'll understand.'

25. And my favorite: My mother taught me about JUSTICE.
'One day you'll have kids, and I hope they turn out just like you.'

Back to my routine......

2009-02-01T19:29:00.000-08:00

After 2 weeks of pretending like Cami lives in California- they are now back in Stockholm and I will go back to work in the morning. I worked some while Cami and Klas were here but I managed to get a few days off. It was so nice to have them here. Lots of talks, lots of laughs, too much food, and wedding plans... They managed to get a lot done in 2 weeks so I think it was a successful trip. Now the countdown begins.... 6 months, 2 weeks and 6 days until the big day! I am not sure yet when I will get out there.

On our way to the airport.

We stopped and had lunch with Brooke's family on the way to the airport.

After taking Cami and Klas to the airport I went on over to Brooke and Evan's. It was a short but great visit. Brynn has a cough but for the most part was still her smiley self. It was fun to see McKenzie go to Primary this morning- to her 3-year-old Sunday School class. They had substitute teachers today which she was not happy about--so I ended up staying with her. But it worked out and she had fun.

Ruby and Jade were glad to see me when I got home this evening. Poor cats! They pretty much think they live alone. Thank goodness for Judy and Hailey who come over to feed them every day when I am gone. I am actually looking forward to work (what????). So much to catch up on. I am so thankful the weather has been pretty wonderful these past two weeks. In Stockholm they are now up to about 6 hours a day of daylight and the temp is up to about 32 degrees! I sure take California weather for granted.

Party time!

2009-01-20T18:05:00.000-08:00

I have had the most fun past 4 days!!! Cami and Klas got into San Francisco last Thursday and stayed at Brooke and Evan's for 2 nights. Then on Saturday I went over to Brooke's to see everyone. After spending a fun lunch at Brooke's, Cami, Klas and I headed off to Pleasanton for their engagement party that was happening that night at friends', Marsha and Greg's. It was a fantastic evening with friends and family. Everyone there got to meet Klas- he was charming! Everyone kept telling me how perfect he is for Cami-- which he is! There was a lot of food, laughter, little kids and babies, and wonderful conversations.

Klas made fast friends with Brynn!

Cami and Klas looking fabulous at their engagement party!

The guests of honor answering questions.

Lifelong friends, the Vasquez Family and Mike Zahuta with Cami and Klas.

Having a great time listening to the answers to the questions!

Cami has known Maryrose since they were both 6 years old!

Sunday was a quiet down time day- everyone was so tired after the long day on Saturday. We had a great day at Chrissie and Bill's. The sunshine was wonderful- the warm weather has been so rejuvenating- especially for Cami and Klas who are in the dead of winter back in Stockholm.

Klas enjoyed playing with Ivy, Brianna's daughter

I took Monday and Tuesday off since Cami is here... so not going to work was a treat in itself!! Monday we went to San Francisco Zoo with Brooke's family. Another day in paradise with amazing weather!! I had so much fun with McKenzie and Brynn too at the zoo. Kenzie was afraid of the goats in the petting zoo.... but from a distance she loved all the other animals. After leaving the zoo and saying good-by to Brooke's family- Cami, Klas and I headed over to the beach- just across the road from the zoo. I have said it before but the ocean fills my soul! The warm weather and beautiful ocean was perfect. After driving back to Sacramento- we went to dinner at Kelly and Marcus's, who weren't able to come to the engagement party. It was fun to catch up with them and spend time with their family.

Evan and McKenzie checking out the giraffes

Brynn was all smiles as usual!

Family pic at the zoo.

Cami made friends with the goats!

After the zoo we went to the beach.

It was an absolutely gorgeous day!!!

Today was a landmark day!!! We went to lunch with friends of mine from work. Everyone hears me talk about Cami and Klas and it gave them a chance to meet them. Then after lunch Cami and I went off to look at wedding dresses. Lo and behold-- she found the dress!!!!! We are so excited! It is absolutely gorgeous and fits her personality exactly! We didn't really expect that to happen but I was dying to be involved somehow since most plans will be made 7,000 miles away... so we thought we would go look at dresses. She knew sort of what she wanted and had already looked at some. I can't spoil the surprise so I there will be no description of the dress. For those of you that can't come to Sweden in August - you will have to look at my blog after the wedding!!!

Tomorrow is back to work. Cami and Klas have places to go and people to see. So for a few days it is back to reality for me. But I will see them some more next week. I am in heaven when I can be with my kids. It is especially fun for me to have Cami and Klas with Brooke and her family all at the same time. I guess with Ian in Dallas, Cami is Sweden, and Brooke in Menlo Park the times I will have them all together will be far and few between. For now I have the wedding to look forward to for that! I just hate that my job interferes with my personal life!! When I win the lottery or more realistically, when I retire, I will be able to have that freendom. For now I will take what I can get as far as time with my kids.

Cami is coming!!

2009-01-13T23:32:00.001-08:00

I have been too busy with work and not a lot going on otherwise these past 2 weeks....... I have been able to see some great movies- Doubt, Curious Case of Benjamin Buttons, Seven Pounds. Last Saturday before I went to work for a couple of hours I had fun going to my friends', Bryan and Lisa, son's birthday party! He is so adorable. He turned 3. Every present he opened he said "Oh My Goodness!!!" I am so fortunate to have them as friends- they are a wonderful family. The kids made their own pizzas and had a blast!

Ayden making his pizza!

Lisa with Bryan while we were singing Happy Birthday!

This week I will be putting in the hours but have a few days off next week- Cami and Klas are coming to California! They will be in the States for 2 weeks. Part of that time they will go to Texas so that Klas can meet Ian and his family. So I am very excited- we will be talking wedding, wedding, wedding!!

Happy New Year!

2008-12-31T08:15:00.000-08:00

Another year gone--- where did it go??? This past year has FLOWN by! It is so true when they say the older you get the faster time flies. I had a great year for the most part. The highlights were Brynn being born, spending time in Disneyland with Ian's and Brooke's families and having Cami here in June and July. I have family and friends I wish I could see more often. My job has been good, I am lucky to work with great people!

So for 2009--- I look forward to Cami's wedding, seeing more of my grandchildren, traveling to Sweden, and hopefully other places. I am off to spend New Year's Eve with McKenzie and Brynn while Brooke and Evan go over to friends' house.
Happy New Year to you all!!!

Merry Christmas!!

2008-12-26T21:36:00.000-08:00

This will be a short blog - just to update you all that I am still over at Brooke and Evan's. Our Christmas Eve and Christmas Day were beautiful!! Except that little Brynn is sick, which breaks our hearts. I was able to talk to Ian and his whole family. Reagan and Jenna had a fun Christmas and were so excited telling me about everything Santa brought them!! I also was able to talk to Cami and Klas. They are up at Klas's mom's house having a magical Swedish Christmas.

Here are a few Christmas Eve and Christmas Day pics. More to follow later---

There is an amazing neighborhood in San Carlos that decorates like crazy!

Enjoying the lights with McKenzie.

McKenzie's goodies and note she left for Santa!

Kenzie and Brynn in matching outfits!

Kenzie dressing up as a Princess!

Brynn loves her new baby doll.

Holiday Emotions

2008-12-21T20:45:00.000-08:00

I am pretty melancholy this time of year. I want to be with all of my friends and family. Last Christmas I was able to be with Ian, his family, and Cami. This year I will be with Brooke and her family. I am so excited to get past the next 2 days so I can head over there. Cami and Klas will be coming out for a visit in January so I have that to look forward to also.

Last week I saw McKenzie and Brynn. Kenzie is so excited for Christmas. I am adding a cute video of her singing. She loves to sing for her sister.

Brynn is growing so fast. I love getting her to smile- which isn't hard to do!

This past weekend was a crazy busy clean-up, catch-up, Christmas shopping, movie going, church going, friend visiting weekend! My kind of weekend! While at the movies with Marcia and Diana I ran into friends Rick and Tracy. I ended up going to early dinner with them afterwards. It was great to catch up with them. Today after church I went to Bryan and Lisa's for an amazing dinner! They had friends from Texas staying with them, Adam and Meagan. Lisa made this fabulous dish that is actually a Macaroni Grill recipe- of Chicken, pasta, prosciutto, and capers which had a delicious rich sauce on it. I didn't even want to know the calorie count for it!! I love their family so much. It is always entertaining to watch their boys, Ayden and Logan! Lisa even sent me home with leftovers. Most people know I don't eat left overs--- but let's just say that this time I am definitely making an exception. I can't wait for dinner tomorrow night- I know what I am eating!

Ayden loves to draw!

Lisa cooking our wonderful dinner!!

Logan found something to do while his mom was cooking!

Meagan, Adam, Ayden, Bryan, Lisa and Logan.

It is really cold here in Sacramento- but after hearing from my sister in Seattle- they have been snowed in for 3 days! And of course, with Cami in Sweden, I guess I shouldn't complain too much. At least we have more than 2 hours of sunlight a day...
Have a great Christmas week everyone!

End of the year check-up

2008-12-14T20:39:00.000-08:00

Every year at the end of the year I have an opportunity to meet with the Bishop of my ward at church. We go over church matters and then he asks how I am doing. He is truly interested in what is going on in my life. I think it is pretty amazing that I am at a point in my life when I can tell him everything is good! The things I feel a need to complain about all of a sudden seem trivial- so I don't. For the most part the things that are tough for me aren't really that tough. I wish I lived closer to my children, other family and friends, I wish I could retire, I wish had more money so I could retire..... but really................... I have my health, I have a good job, I talk to my children on a regular basis, I have wonderful friends, I have 4 precious granddaughters, I have my faith. It has only taken me 50+ years to feel like I am pretty grounded!!! Sure I have regrets but, for the most part, if I could go back I wouldn't. The saying"If I knew then what I know now" couldn't be more applicable!!! I do have to admit-- I told the Bishop I am ready for a new calling. Being Activities Chairperson has been a great challenge. But after a year of planning activities for the ward and for 3 years before that planning events for the Single Adults I feel I have had enough of event planning! However, I also know I should be careful what I wish for! So we'll see what happens. In the meantime, I am grateful for this past year. I am grateful for my blessings.

I'm Still Employed!

2008-12-07T09:21:00.000-08:00

This past week has been a roller coaster week for me. I knew at the beginning of the week that there were announcements coming at work by the end of the week that would affect me. The big media announcement came on Thursday that AT&T would be laying off 12,000 people. I have mixed emotions since I want to retire soon and there would be additional money if they were to lay me off, but I want it to be my idea not the company's. I need to still work for financial reasons so if I were to retire from AT&T I would still be needing work of some kind. So I found out Friday that I am safe------FOR NOW! However, 7 of my friends are not. I am so sad that they received their notice. I am fortunate to be working with government accounts. I am a Sales Support Manager- which is like a project manager. Thank goodness not many do what I do so they still need me. We all have the feeling that eventually they will move our job to the mid-west though where it is less expensive, but for now I am grateful to still have a job. It couldn't have come any closer to me then it did without it hitting me. For those that did get the letter I am sorry. I am sad. I am mad. It comes down to the dollar- and at the customer's expense too. But corporate America isn't thinking about that. They are thinking of the shareholders. I will continue to work hard (probably harder) because the company has fewer and fewer resources that I use to provision the technology for State and Local government agencies. Oh yea- last week- the Governor's office lost their voice mail for 2 days! Something that could be fixed in a couple of hours took about 2 days to get them back up and running. But that isn't anything new- just an example of the issues we deal with on a regular basis! Picture the cartoon of the guy banging his head again and again on the brick wall ---- that is how I feel! I do still like my job. Just don't love it. I need to get ready to go to church- and unfortunately, afterwards, I need to go into the office for a few hours. But I am not really complaining- I am grateful to still be employed!!

The holidays are here!

2008-11-30T09:12:00.000-08:00

Even though I didn't have my kids around I had a great Thanksgiving weekend. As usual, I was super busy! It gave me a chance to see friends and family I hadn't seen for awhile. I started the weekend off Wednesday night by going to see the movie Australia with Theresa. I loved that movie!!! It was beautiful.

The movie Australia received mixed reviews- I loved it!

After dealing with some things for church on Thanksgiving I drove to Sacramento. Kelly and the kids came along- since they had too many people for one car and we were all going to her mom and dad's house. It is fun that Kelly and her family live here in Sacramento. Sure made the drive more interesting! At Chris and Bill's we had a house full!! I have had many Thanksgivings with them so it was just like being with family. During the day I was able to talk with Ian, Brooke and Cami so I got my kid fix. Marcus's brother, Quillan, got the dribble glass so he was initiated into the family!! It is a Gum tradition- the new person gets the dribble glass-- we all do toasts with the water glasses... and we wait to see how the person with the dribble glass reacts when the glass they are drinking out of dribbles! Too funny.... He took it well! Bill deep fried the turkey- it was delicious!!

Bill did a great job frying the turkey.

Kelly with MJ and Bri with Ivy

Here we are feasting!!!

I got a turn at feeding and holding Ivy!

Nana Chrissie with MJ

Shannon and Jeff at dinner.

Friday was my crazy day. My sister, Susie, and her family were in the Bay Area with Pete's family for Thanksgiving. So we met for lunch in Pleasanton at a great restaurant, Stacy's. I always enjoy catching up with them. My nephews are wonderful guys. Drew is working now for Wells Fargo and Jack is getting ready to go to Italy for Study Abroad, through USC. We had a nice visit but all too short. Then I went to see Cami's friend, Monica. She has a 10 week old son- and is so precious! It was fun to be with them and see how well Moni is doing. Then I went over to the Hall's. I love Dan and Kathy's family so much. They had a house full too!!! There were 9 children and 11 adults there so it was a controlled (?) chaos!! Andre made a wonderful turkey soup that I enjoyed with them. So after a fun time at the Halls I went on back to Chris and Bill's.

Monica and Little Tony

Jack, Drew, Sue and Pete after lunch.

Kathy with her mom, Ione, and her granddaughter, Abby

Saturday I drove home and took Kelly's little boy, 18 month old MJ, home to his mom and dad in Sacramento. They had gone back home ahead to move into a new house. After getting home I went into to the office for few hours. Not really fun but necessary! And today was church... so much to catch up on! Visits on the phone--- and back to the grind tomorrow. But with the holidays upon us I don't mind!!

Vampires, baby shower, grandkids and church!

2008-11-23T19:11:00.000-08:00

I started out my weekend with Edward and Bella!!!! It was so fun to go the first night of the release of Twilight. It followed the first book really well.... the chemistry between Edward and Bella was believable! Good music- and the cinematography was beautiful of the Northwest. They definitely set the scene for the next movie!

Saturday I went to the Bay Area for Sadie's baby shower. Sadie and her twin sister, Lucy, grew up with my kids on the same street. Now she lives in Japan with her Air Force pilot husband, Rick. Their baby is due in March... and Sadie was here visiting her family so there was a fun shower for her at Mimi's Cafe- one of my favorite places! It was fun to see the girls all together. Brooke brought Brynn so everyone got to see her. Kelly was there with her little guy, MJ, and Brianna was there with her baby girl, Ivy. It is so surreal to me to see all these young women together that have known each other for over 20 years! Sadie is having a girl and she got some really fun stuff.

Camera on the wrong setting but it's the only picture I got of Brooke with Sadie!

Sadie opening gifts.

Lucy loved playing with Brynn

One of Bri's friends holding Ivy.

When Brooke and I were shopping I found a mirror for Brynn to look at- she loved seeing "the baby"!!!

After the shower I followed Brooke and Brynn back to their house. I had a few short hours to play with Mckenzie before she had to go to bed. Then some play time this morning before I had to leave to get home for church. I had a meeting today so I had to come to my own ward! Time to get ready for the Ward Christmas party!!

Had to get one more picture of Kenzie before I left this morning!

Cami and Klas are engaged!

2008-11-16T21:43:00.001-08:00

I am so excited, thrilled, and estatic- Klas proposed to Cami last Thursday night while they were in London! Needless to say, we are all very happy for them. No details yet. All we know is the wedding will probably be next summer. But I want you all to know I love Klas- He is a great man. He adores Cami. They are so cute together. I miss Cami so much but I know she is so happy. She is where she needs to be. So-- we are going to Sweden for a wedding!!!!

Another crazy weekend!!

2008-11-15T22:40:00.000-08:00

Once again I have had a fun filled jam packed weekend! Friday night started off the weekend with Brooke, McKenzie, and Brynn staying the night with me! Brooke's friend,Sarah, and her little girl, Madison, came over for awhile too. McKenzie was in heaven having another little girl to squeal and laugh with! I loved having them here- it doesn't happen very often. Brooke doesn't like my cats--- and with the kids it is hard for them to be in the car for the 2 hr drive. So it is easier for me to go there usually.... But still - it was fun to have them here. Brynn loved the toys I had here. She is reaching for everything! Brooke even got a good run in by the American River- a running trail she used to run on 5 years ago.

Brooke and Sarah were roommates at UC Davis!

Saturday morning I headed off to San Francisco to attend a luncheon for Joanie's younger daughter, Kristen's, Alpha Gamma Delta Initiation Luncheon. Kristen goes to SFSU. Joanie couldn't make it up north to the luncheon so I had the honor of going in her place! Kristen is a beautiful young women. It was fun to meet her new sorority sisters. I remember when Kristen was 2 and 3 and used to walk everywhere on her tippy toes!!! Seeing her in her new college environment was a treat!!!

She loved the sweatshirt her mom sent up for her!

Kristen with her "Big Sis"

After the luncheon I drove back to Sacramento- made it just in time to get over to the church for our Chili Cook-Off. Never a dull moment... on the way to SF I was making calls only to find out that no one showed up to set up the tables and chairs. So I was dialing like a crazy lady to find someone to set up the tables. I am so grateful to have Tanja on the Activities Committee.. she solved the issue and got the place decorated too. The night was a huge success.... we had about 160 people. I didn't get to eat any of the chili, which is probably a good thing since I don't need the extra calories! We also had a dessert cook-off. So lots of food, people and fun!

Full house for the chili cook-off!

Cottage Park Ward had 15 chili entrants and 22 dessert entrants!

Then today after church I went over to Theresa's and she, Roni and I had another canning session!! This time we made apple butter!!!! We started with 42 lbs. of apples!!!! I could never do this on my own! But it was so fun with the three of us. So far we have made strawberry jam and apple butter. We plan to do Salsa or bread and butter pickles next! I am too tired to put my clean sheets on my bed tonight. That may not happen!!!!

Roni and Theresa getting ready to core the apples.

After 4 hours of coring, cutting, and cooking the apple butter I am now filling the jars.

We canned 62 jars!

Roni, Theresa and I are very proud of ourselves!!

M-I-C-K-E-Y-M-O-U-S-E

2008-11-10T21:12:00.000-08:00

What a great week I had!!! I got home tonight after being gone for 7 days. 4 of which were in Disneyland with Ian and Brooke's families! The other days were with friends, Joanie, Alan, Erika, Barb and Harland. I DON"T WANT TO GO BACK TO WORK!! I had so much fun. We couldn't have asked for better weather in Disneyland either! Hard to believe it was November. I was in Grandma Heaven!!! The little girls were all wonderful!!! It was so fun to see everything through their eyes. I was so happy to have almost everyone together. I was sad that Cami and Klas weren't there- maybe next time they will be able to join us. But as far as vacations go- this one rocked!

Brooke and McKenzie at the Disneyland Hotel

Ian, Anayansi , and Reagan at California Adventure

Jenna. Reagan, and McKenzie on the Monorail

All four of my beautiful granddaughters!!

On our way into Disneyland

Anayansi, Jenna, Ian, Reagan and Brooke went on the roller coaster in Toon Town.

Kenzie got her face painted.

Reagan got her face painted too!

Jenna dressed up as Ariel to meet the princesses!

Slumber party in Grandma's room!

Reagan and I went on the 3-D ride Toy Story!

Brynn was such a happy baby the whole time!

Reagan loved holding her cousin, Brynn!

Jenna and McKenzie loved playing Ring Around the Rosie while waiting for dinner one night!

Evan and McKenzie on the Autopia

After a long day!!!!

I also was so happy to see my friends before and after the family gathering. It was great to see Joanie and her family, and her animals!

Joanie and Snickers

The beautiful view from Joanie's in Laguna Beach.

After Disneyland I stayed with Barb and Har. It was great to see them!! I went to church with them and had a great family dinner.

Barb and Har at Old Town Mexican Cafe

Celebrating Harland's sister's birthday!

I am so grateful for the time I was able to spend with my family and friends. I hate that my job interferes with my personal life!!!

Happy Birthday Anayansi and Evan!!!

2008-11-03T23:01:00.000-08:00

With all the excitement of Halloween I didn't take the time to publicly say Happy Birthday to my beautiful Daughter-In-Law, Anayansi, and my wonderful Son-In-law, Evan!!! I could not be more blessed than I am to have them both in my family!! Anayansi is a wonderful mother to Reagan and Jenna. She is so supportive of Ian. He works long hard hours and she manages to run the household smoothly in his absence. She does it with grace and a great sense of humor! I love her like my own daughter.

Baking with Reagan!

Anayansi last April

Her birthday 2 weeks ago!

Four days after Anayansi's birthday was Evan's birthday!! Evan is an amazing guy! He is such a good father to McKenzie and Brynn. As quiet as he is- you would never know from first impression what a tease he is- especially to Brooke and the girls! He loves Brooke unconditionally. He is such a good example to all. He is patient with me as a Mother-in Law! I admire him for how hard he works to provide for his family. I love him and appreciate him so much!!

Happy Birthdays to both Anayansi and Evan!! You both add so much to our family!!

More Halloween fun!

2008-11-03T21:51:00.000-08:00

A lot of adults like to dress up at Halloween when given a chance! I admit I am not one of them.... so I was happy to have an excuse to dress casual for work- I wore jeans and one of Cami's UC Davis sweat shirts--- I told everyone I was a college student!!
We had a pot luck for the day- and I was a good girl! I managed to stay away from most of the goodies.... I brought a big bowl of different kinds of fruit. Boring, I know.... but it actually went over well. It was almost all gone by then end of the day. So I thought I would include a few cute pictures of the braver ones that really dressed up.

Roni won best costume of the day!!

Judy was a great witch!

Esme was a beautiful Snow White!!

And of course, I would be remiss not to show the beautiful granddaughters dressed up for Halloween!

Reagan as a Rock Star and Jenna as Ariel!!

McKenzie was a cute Little Orphan Annie

McKenzie and Brynn with their cousins on Daddy's side- Elleyette and Jack!

And then there was Ian and Anayansi- they couldn't have looked more beautiful!

Happy Halloween!

Trunk or Treat!!

2008-10-26T20:22:00.000-07:00

I have to admit-- when I moved to Sacramento 5 years ago it was so hard to start over with a new church family. To this day I still go to church with Brooke and Evan a lot and I love to go back to my ward in Pleasanton. But I can truly say that I have finally learned to feel comfortable in my ward and even my stake. Last night was a testament to the great Stake that I belong to. We had an amazing Trunk or Treat event! There were about 50 cars decorated in the parking lot that the kids went trick or treating to, games to play- like fishing, bowling, throwing, a pumped- up- slide, old movies playing on the wall, barbecued hotdogs, root beer floats, face painting, and pumpkin carving contests. I would say there were at least 450 people there if not more! The costumes were so fun! I spent most of my time helping with the dinner but also had a chance to walk around to the cars making sure everyone had enough candy to hand out (and replenishing their supply if they didn't). So enjoy the pictures!! It was a fun night!

Seth is a plumber in real life- so very appropriate! His "Broken Sewer" was the hit of the night. Look closely at this picture!!He gave away his candy down his sewer pipe!!

Our Stake President with some hot dogs!

Snow White with the Wicked Witch!

A dragon guarding the castle!

Bishop Wickham was a chef!

Randy was one mean cowboy!!!

April was one beautiful damsel- helping the YW with their face painting table.

Spencer and Connor- a.k.a Indiana Jones and Steve Erkel!

Judy was spaghetti dinner!!!

Nicole and Kirsten collected a lot of candy!!

The missionaries stopped to pose for me!

Time Travel

2008-10-19T22:05:00.000-07:00

Do you have smells that take you back in time?? I certainly do! I was in Dan and Kathy's back yard this evening...McKenzie picked a gardenia off of one of their bushes and handed it to me. Just one sniff and I traveled in time back to 1969-Senior Year in Coronado! Summer nights in Coronado always smelled like gardenias. It amazes me that almost 40 years later the fragrance of a flower has the power of time travel!

Gardenias from Kathy's back yard.

So I was thinking on my drive home what other smells trigger past memories. Here are a few- Jergens hand lotion always reminds me of my mother. I'm sure she had other fragrances around her but that is the one I remember. Snickerdoodle cookies take me back to Enid, Oklahoma where my Grandmother Schaefer lived. She always made them for us when we came to visit. A fresh box of crayons reminds me of elementary school.

And what about music?? I could go on all night about what memories come from which song. Beach Boys' "Surfer Girl" takes me back to Jr High dancing with Mike Rohan. Jan and Dean songs take me back to Laurie Gray's living room when a bunch of us 8th grade girls would practice dancing and snacking on chips and dip! Rolling Stones and The Beatles take me back to all the dances in high school. The Stones' "Under My Thumb" gives me flash backs of being with Joanie in her '67 Mustang. Fast forward to the 80'sand 90's---Kylie Minogue's "Locomotion" takes me back to Brooke's birthday party when she was in 4th grade. When I hear a Raffi song I can see clearly in my mind Cami in her pink bedroom listening to his songs on her Fisher Price tape player at bedtime! Every time I hear a Bob Marley song I think of Ian and how he liked him when he was about 15. "Soul Man" was a song Cami danced to in a tap competition. The list goes on forever, as I'm sure it does for you too. So what smells and songs take you back in time??? I would love to hear about it.

Jenna is 3!

2008-10-11T22:58:00.000-07:00

My little granddaughter, Jenna, is is 3 today!!!!!!!!! I wish so much I could be with her on her birthday. Her other grandparents are with her so I know she is having a great day. Things I love about Jenna- she is beautiful, she funny- no, not just funny, she is hilarious! She is the best climber! She is so smart for 3 years old. She loves princesses. Anayansi said that right now she is especially into Ariel. She is such a good girl for her mom and dad. She absolutely loves her big sister! When I was with her a few months ago she constantly loved to twirl in circles. There is never a dull moment if Jenna is in the room! I am so excited that I will see her and the rest of her family at Disneyland in 3 weeks. So Happpy Birthday Jenna- Grandma loves you sooooooooooo much!!!!

In Spite of My Homemaking Skills!

2008-10-05T20:37:00.000-07:00

Today's world is so fast paced. It easy to get overwhelmed. Between time and money there is never enough of either..... If I had enough time, my house would always be clean, I would never be tired, I would cook perfect meals, and I would remember everyone's birthday!! If I had enough money I wouldn't stress about bills, I would have nicer clothes, I would travel a lot more, and I would share it with as many as possible! But the older I get the more I realize all those things aren't really that important. The important things are not as tangible as the perfect meal or the clean house. My children were raised on the 30 minute meal plan! When they were young, cooking was not really a priority for me. I didn't have the time to be Martha Stewart or Rachel Ray. But you know what- I think my children turned out to be amazing adults. In spite of my lack of skills they turned out pretty darn well. I don't think the perfect parent is out there. I know some that come really close to that..... but I don't think perfect exists. So we all try hard and do the best we can. The important thing is that we are true to ourselves. If we are true to ourself then we set the best example a parent can set. It doesn't matter if we don't make perfect meals, it doesn't matter if the house isn't spotless, it doesn't matter if we can't sew a button. What matters is that we are engaged. Being present in the moment states that those that are around us are what matters. I see that in each of my children. Each has their own unique personality. Each one is strong and independent, yet they are also very caring. I am most proud that they know how to love their families and friends.

I had another fun weekend with Brooke and her family. They are so sweet to be with. I couldn't be more proud of the mother that Brooke is. Do I sound like a doting mom and grandma??? Yea--- sorry! But I am. I am so blessed to have Ian, Anayansi, Reagan, Jenna, Brooke, Evan, McKenzie, Brynn, Cami and Klas in my life!

McKenzie built this tower while we were watching conference on TV!

Brynn smiling for Grandma.

Cousins

2008-09-29T22:06:00.000-07:00

When you are asked what is most important to you- most would say family. I know I would. The family I am thinking of isn't just the immediate family but the extended family also. This past weekend I had the opportunity to go to my cousin Mike's daughter's wedding in Santa Cruz. I don't get to see my cousins very often...We are all really different from each other but we all have the same bond of being part of the Maxwell family. My mother's maiden name is Maxwell. My cousin Mike's Mom was my mom's older sister. The Maxwells lived in a teeny tiny town in Lucien, Oklahoma. Every year my family made a trip back to Oklahoma to spend a month with the grandparents and all the aunts, uncles and cousins. Everyone came from other parts of Oklahoma, Kansas. We came the farthest from California. I have 21 first cousins. By LDS standards that isn't a big deal. But having not grown up in the LDS church I always thought I was pretty special to have so many cousins.

Lucien was a little farming town in rural Oklahoma. It had one gas station, one local market, one post office and one church. Miles and Evelyn Maxwell had a big white 2 story house across the red dirt road from the one room school house.. Going there was such an adventure. The house had 2 stair cases in it. One was like a secret passage. It had a great front porch with a creaky screen door that I can still remember the sound of. We bathed on the back porch in a small tin tub with hot water that was heated on the stove. And to go to the bathroom we had to walk out the back door down the steps, go through a small gate, walk past the vegetable garden to the outhouse. Sometimes Pat , the bull, was grazing in the back and I was terrified to go out there. It was always a challenge to wake up one of my sisters or cousins to go with me out there at night so that they could hold the flashlight! For fun we would climb out on the roof of the house and climb into the pine tree by the roof, or hike to the railroad trellis and climb down to the creek below, or play on the playground at the school house across the road. I also remember walking to the market to see Mabel, the owner. We would buy strawberry soda pop from a really weird pop bottle machine. Of all my memories of being in Lucien - probably the best is being with the rest of the the kids and watching my grandmother pulling the homemade taffy with her buttery hands. She would work really fast so as not to burn her hands. She also made the best popcorn balls and for fun would put food coloring in the sugar!

So over the years we have grown up and now we all live all over the world. Many of us are grandparents ourselves. But there is something great about being with family. My cousin, Monita and I had a great talk on the way back from Santa Cruz. She made a comment that our family is full of grace- meaning unconditional love- for each other in spite of our flaws. That's why when I get a chance to see my cousins I will always make the effort.

Thought I would share a few pictures of the wedding--

All of the cousins that we there.

The happy couple, Lyda and Jason.

My cousin, Mike, with his daughter.

My cousin, Monita, and her son, Martin after a long day!

Pain Pain, Go Away!!!

2008-09-21T19:31:00.000-07:00

Have you ever had a pinched nerve????? Somehow- 2 months ago I did something that has caused pain ever since. It starts right where my neck and right shoulder meet- and goes all the way down my right arm. To the point that I now can hardly use my right arm. So I thought I would let everyone know just so you understand why this will be a short post. I laid low this weekend trying to rest the arm. And have you ever tried using the mouse on the computer with your other hand? I feel like such a dork!!! I have started physical therapy and been to the Dr. but my doctor (she wasn't my usual Dr.) didn't seem to have a clue. Then I talked to my friend, Diana, that is a psychologist that deals with pain management. She totally heard what I was saying and told me to get a certain pain prescription and see to a Physiatrist. I never even knew there was such a Dr.- but a physiatrist is a spine doctor. She also said do not go to a chiropractor. So I am doing the hot-cold treatment, wearing the forearm brace and living on Ibuprofen. So tomorrow I am calling the Dr. again. We'll see. I have dealt with chronic pain before but this is getting ridiculous!!!!!
Thanks for letting me whine!!!! I will keep you posted! =)